Belinda
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I really think there are so many facets to this issue.
1. What was the motivation of the parents to seek acceptance at this school?
2. Are there comparable or better schools in that area that are non-church related?
3. Is there a financial factor to be considered?
4. How would the parents have really felt if their child had been schooled against gays?
5. Were they prepared to deal with that eventuality or was that another battle they planned to wage?
6. Did the parents really feel this was the best choice for their child or was it a statement for the sake of making a statement?
Even now, I would probably make the same choice for my daughter. I shouldn't have said otherwise. The fact of the matter is that a Catholic education is, in many places, superior to public school. Further, the costs for a non-religious private school were prohibitive and we wouldn't have been able to manage it. At the time, that was the best choice for our daughter.
I think this truly boils down to the true motivation of the parents. I believe that any private school, religious or otherwise, has the right to select who it will admit. Even though it rubs against my grain, I still feel that they should and do have that right. I wish religious institutions were more inclusive, but it's not the nature of the beast, so to speak. I am a person that strongly dislikes for anyone to be excluded. It seems hurtful and petty.
1. What was the motivation of the parents to seek acceptance at this school?
2. Are there comparable or better schools in that area that are non-church related?
3. Is there a financial factor to be considered?
4. How would the parents have really felt if their child had been schooled against gays?
5. Were they prepared to deal with that eventuality or was that another battle they planned to wage?
6. Did the parents really feel this was the best choice for their child or was it a statement for the sake of making a statement?
Even now, I would probably make the same choice for my daughter. I shouldn't have said otherwise. The fact of the matter is that a Catholic education is, in many places, superior to public school. Further, the costs for a non-religious private school were prohibitive and we wouldn't have been able to manage it. At the time, that was the best choice for our daughter.
I think this truly boils down to the true motivation of the parents. I believe that any private school, religious or otherwise, has the right to select who it will admit. Even though it rubs against my grain, I still feel that they should and do have that right. I wish religious institutions were more inclusive, but it's not the nature of the beast, so to speak. I am a person that strongly dislikes for anyone to be excluded. It seems hurtful and petty.