I did not realize it was so difficult to track someone's SSN information. So in theory, Steven could be using his SSN right now, and there's no way LE/the family could find out about it? Very interesting, although to be honest I don't think he's using his SSN, wherever he is.
Identity theft is easy enough, without loosening privacy policies. Steven's family really has no right to know where he is, because he's an adult and free to move around as he wishes. It's good etiquette to keep your family informed ... but when the choices are "he's dead/he left on his own accord", I don't think poor etiquette is the problem.
Great news about the sightings at Home Depot and Best Buy. Interesting coincidence that both sightings are independent of each other, in different cities (right? one in Las Vegas and the other in Sacramento?)
A sighting in Sacramento? When did we learn that? Got a news story that talks about it?
The Clipper story about "tips" mentioned Home Depot in Vegas, and then Naegle said that one of the tips her uncle reviewed in Vegas, was Best Buy.
... it's pretty obvious what happened to SP and I don't think getting the word out in the Midwest and on the east coast about her disappearance is going to help find her. I think we all know what happened there.
SP's friends & family will disagree; they're thrilled that people in Asia are "looking for Susan". (I know, I know.)
When Steven was in Brazil, he was in a very structured environment. He would never be alone (missionaries work in pairs and "police" each other), he'd live in a structured environment, there would be strict supervision by the Mission President and others, and although they may see some interesting things, it's doubtful he interacted., I don't think Steven DID fit in in Utah/the LDS community. That's probably why he missed Brazil so much - perhaps he felt more accepted and appreciated there. If Steven did run off, I think it was probably for the best. He needed to go some place (hey, like here in NYC for example!) where one is surrounded by different cultures and ways of life, and where he would feel free to explore spiritually, sexually, musically, socially, etc.
Not supposed to date while you're on a mission (although it's not uncommon to read wedding announcements about a missionary to a certain foreign country marrying someone from that country). Can't even swim while you're on a mission.
IMO, Steven was in his perfect environment: didn't have to worry about rent or expenses (parents and contributions fund the missionaries), structured environment, represented something he was proud of, didn't have to look for a job, and it would undoubtedly be a beautiful place to be.
When I read about him wanting to go back to Brazil, I never read about what he wanted to do there. I think he wanted to go back to "that time". But I could be very wrong, of course.
ETA: Hey, did Naegle say whether the family is accepting the services of that PI who offered to do some work on Steven pro bono???
Naegle didn't say whether they accepted the PI's offer. I just hope they don't give out a lot of personal/investigative information to anyone willing to work "for free".....because there's been at least one "icky" phone call from an amateur "learning to be a PI" wanting to work for free.
I think Rolf would be the decider on that. Hopefully, his police beat training will kick in and he'll look at what they want versus what they're willing to do. (The info Naegle passed along was gained during a family get-together over the weekend...and if Rolf was there, he'd just gotten back from Vegas).
I kinda think the family needs a PR rep, more than a PI