I have a very strong, adverse reaction when people casually through around words like tramp, *advertiser censored*, *advertiser censored*, ho, etc. Those are intense words that are extremely hateful and degrading to women. I understand that some women may have questionable behavior that makes people think these words are acceptable, but IMO they are not. These are extremely loaded words that cut like a knife. We always say we want our women of the future to grow up being confident of themselves and not stand for disrespect from anyone. Yet we live in this culture where women especially are so quick to judge and label other women with these words. It is bad enough that men have no equivalent word - for many of them believe notches on the belt impressive. Until we stop using these words to cut other women down, how can we expect men to stop using them and treating women as such.
Don't get me wrong - I am not saying I approve of either women or men sleeping around. But the bottom line is a women gets slapped with a label while a man gets slapped on the back. I think it is more important to get down to the reason of why a woman is exhibiting these behaviors and how we as a society are partly to blame for creating this environment where such little thought or care is placed on the intimate act of sex.
If a woman dresses too sexy and doesn't exhibit your same morals and values, that is her perogative. But i really feel we should stop sitting in judgement hurling these insults. You might think they are just words, but they are so much more than that.
Don't get me wrong - I am not saying I approve of either women or men sleeping around. But the bottom line is a women gets slapped with a label while a man gets slapped on the back. I think it is more important to get down to the reason of why a woman is exhibiting these behaviors and how we as a society are partly to blame for creating this environment where such little thought or care is placed on the intimate act of sex.
If a woman dresses too sexy and doesn't exhibit your same morals and values, that is her perogative. But i really feel we should stop sitting in judgement hurling these insults. You might think they are just words, but they are so much more than that.