My early elementary years were spent in a European country where students were expected to write in cursive with fountain pens starting in kindergarten. I have no children of my own and don't have strong opinions about pedagogy, but it always saddens me to see "pretty" dismissed as, basically, wasteful and ridiculous. I'm not prepared to debate that cursive is more essential to teach (given limited time and resources) than arithmetic or whatever, but I also don't want to abandon the idea that everyday things can and should be beautiful; that there is value in the aesthetic as much as in the practical. At risk of sounding insufferable, it's one of the things I miss most about living in Europe and something I see very rarely here.
On the other hand, I'm not sure that's the attitude with which cursive is currently being taught, and teaching cursive mechanically "because that's how things are done" does nothing to instill said attitude, so perhaps this is not the right battle.
Keep in mind I work with NYC inner city school teachers. So there's a lot more diversity and need.
My son attended LaGuardia High School in NYC which is one of the five top public high schools to attend. If you've ever seen the show FAME that's the school. He needed a portfolio to audition. Even these schools are cutting the programs for art because of the need in other areas.
Someone else posted that the reality is that most parents don't help their kids with their homework because it's exhausting and overwhelming. Even in a two parent working household it can often create stress that cuts into the quality time the parents have with their child.
Part of the problem in the school system are parents who have never had to teach who think their special child should be the litmus test for what decisions are made in the curriculum. Unfortunately a large amount of parents are not as involved with their kids as they like to think themselves to be. Educators are constantly held at bay from being honest at what is "going on with charlie" The key in curriculum development is progress and moving forward to find simpler solutions that develop cognitive, logic and reasoning skills and other such skills.
An example of this would be, you may have seen this on your 2nd graders homework.
2+3=
3+2=
5-2=
5-3=
And so many parents think their 6 year old can do this in a heart beat. Once they actually show them the equation they are surprised to find that the child pauses after the first one and then starts "trying to figure out" the answer to the rest of them. This is because young children are in the preoperational stage of development and do not understand "reversability"
http://peggybroadbent.com/blog/category/understanding-reversibility
It is essential for young children to learn this skill to help them develop an understanding of the way you can move things around in a equation in algebra. Nearly every parent that rags on teachers for not teaching the "pretty things" struggle with math skills because they didn't learn the basic foundations.
I'll post some fantastic math links for your kids if you want them. Please note that my area of expertise is in creative writing. I'm all for the arts, however too many kids are being pushed through the school system without the basic foundations of learning in place. It's easy to coddle the idea of "pretty" things but IMHO much more valuable to a student in life to learn core concepts.
I have NEVER met a person who complained about not learning how to do paper mache or write in cursive. I have met many many people who are distraught because their lack of logic and reasoning and core concepts leaves them at a loss with math and computer skills.
Look up Glad2teach on youtube btw. This guy is a MUST for any parent and adult with math. Mind bogglingly easy. He has a lot of videos so be sure to check them out.
[video=youtube;I9t-gYnPNaw]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I9t-gYnPNaw[/video]
Please keep in mind that the theoretical goal of curriculum planning is to create a "life long learner" with metacognitive awareness. What seems like "junk" to most parents is simply something they don't understand.