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IMO, The fact that Kaine did NOT tell Kyron's suffering mother the things hes just now realizing and discovering about Terri prior to that information making it out into the public arena & media - may be a window into his nature.
Thought carried further: If, in every-day married life, Kaine was similarly callous, one can imagine that an emotionally-unstable Terri could grew to despise him.
And even further: If Kaine is blind to Desiree's obvious pain, suffering and needs at this time, I can almost believe he actually may have "missed" all sorts of signs with Terri.
From the e-mails BeanE's provided here: Did he make key marital decisions unilaterally, with good intention perhaps, in spite of Terri's expressed concern with the choices?
Possible: Kaine is just now facing the possibility that he missed "the signs". As difficult as that is to admit to himself, to LE, to the press; perhaps it is even more difficult to admit to a critical Desiree.
Possible: Desiree & Kaines relationship has always been strained; they have a history and they have their reasons for this. We dont know exactly, but there have been hints in early interviews (from Desiree, with Kaine, in the interviews, seemingly unclear why there should be hard feelings - moo). Terri and Desirees relationship was also always strained. Desiree acting independently of Kaine now means shes growing stronger and getting back to the normal of her strained relationship with Kaine. She feels she can critique his choices. No doubt, she feels as custodian parent of Kyron he bears some responsibility here. Right or wrong she has a history with him and is entitled to her feelings on that point. Whether its somehow helpful to the case that she airs those feelings publicly, I suppose we wait and see. If that is grief & anger speaking or if there is more to this story we wait & see. Whether that was an appeal for Kaine and others to be more open, honest and forthcoming to her, we wait and see.
Hopeful: Desiree & Kaine may find a way to continue to work together through this horror they are living. But if Kyron is not alive, it might be less stressful for them to simply part ways. If Kyron has passed, I feel certain Kyrons parents will find a way to love and honor him always. :cow:
In spite of everything that is difficult with this step-family dynamic, so far I see no reason here that Kyron should just be gone. If Terri did this, I fear she did it from a place of anger, insanity and depravity. I hate to say that, but if Terri did this, I've little hope Kyron survived it.
