ScarlettScarpetta
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Scarlett, I can just feel your sadness about LB right through my computer screen. Hugs to you.
I was talking with my mom yesterday about LB...my mom lives in San Antonio, very close to Garden Ridge and knows that I have been slightly obsessed with the case. She was a little worried about me because of the news.
My mom and I both suffer from anxiety and depression (well controlled on meds) and are both high-achieving, "people pleaser" types. We talked yesterday about how when we are depressed, we spend all of our energy putting on a happy face so as not to burden those around us.
I wonder if LB was the same way. Maybe she just couldn't do it anymore...maybe she was just exhausted.
I truly am. For someone I never met. I don't know why for sure. I guess I am upset for the family. I feel like the police gave up looking so soon, The dogs failed them, And for a month they have been holding out hope that she could be alive and she is not.
Someone said something about the discussion about it not being suicide because we want someone else to blame.. And I said no..
But really????? I don't know. I know how I feel does not really matter, But I don't know if it would be easier to accept if someone killed my child or they killed themselves. My heart is with her Mother. I see the picture of the two of them at Christmas time and think... The pain, The hurt, I think that is where my pain is coming from. A mothers heart.
The last time I remember feeling like this.. is when I found out that Susan Smith had rolled those babies in that water herself and watched them drown.
I remember that sadness too..
Thanks for seeing where I am coming from. If my posts are coming off angry, I am not. I am confused and really sad.