Chewy
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I linked that story post 19
What interview?
The media clip in the first post.
I linked that story post 19
What interview?
Link?
From what I can find; none of what you said was in the links you added. We still are clueless what's going on. I'm not on anyone's "side". I know there are 2 sides to every story. Shame her family is not saying theirs.
Here is the quote by Richard. How do we even know he's related to Jenny? Even if he is; how does anyone know he's who he says he is?
Adult with Down Syndrome Fights for Independent Living
n January of 2012, Jenny told Jim and Kelly that her mother and stepfather had asked her to leave the home she shared with them. She briefly went to live with someone who was never home and where she did not feel safe. In March of 2012, while riding her bicycle, Jenny was hit by a car. While in the hospital, she underwent back surgery, which required a stay of more than a week. As her discharge date neared, Jim and Kelly learned from hospital staff that her immediate family was not willing to take her in, and that Jenny had nowhere to go. At that point, Jim and Kelly took her into their home to care for her during her recovery. They began shortly thereafter to seek services for her that would enable her to stay in their home and in the community she loved.
The battle that ensued has resulted in a nightmare for Jenny and for those who love her.
The local Community Services Board (CSB) told Jim and Kelly that it would not provide a Medicaid waiver to help keep Jenny in the community unless she was homeless. To get the services to which Jenny was entitled by law, Jim and Kelly surrendered her to the CSB. They considered the surrender to be purely pro forma and fully trusted that Jenny would return to their home with services in place. Instead, the CSB placed Jenny in a group home.
Adult Protective Services looking into 'Justice for Jenny' caseJenny's interview was a joke, she acted like an excited child and didn't give any very meaningful statements, just kept saying she's happy and doesn't like her mom and likes the other couple.
Here's another story
Adult Protective Services looking into 'Justice for Jenny' case
Hatch may be estranged from her mother and stepfather, Julia and Richard Ross, according to court records that indicated she could not live with them. The Rosses are petitioning the court for a permanent guardianship.
I am looking at the situation with a different lens and I think that there is more to all of this than pure heartlessness on the part of Jenny's family. I think Jim and Kelly thought she needed to be saved when it is very possible she didnt, and at the end of the day they are following a path that has already been traveled by Jenny's family.
But we will see how this all shakes out. I dont think her family is required to make a statement. They may very well believe that it is no one's business but theirs.
BTW I don't think the Richard Hatch guy is really Jenny's Stepfather. From what I understand Richard's last name is Ross. Seems like a phony trying to pretend to be someone in the know.
http://articles.dailypress.com/2012...argaret-jenny-hatch-guardianship-state-agency
It also occurred to me that when they tried to do it the other way and they saw how it had spun out of control, they realized they needed to get control of their daughter back because they had not anticipated something like this.
Seems to me, the real issue is not the parents, but that the group home where she lives is too far away from the community in which she's created her own life.
That part of the story is very compelling and needs to be addressed. I wish the focus had stayed on that and not her parents.
more at the linkNEWPORT NEWS, VA. In a victory for the rights of adults with disabilities, a judge declared Friday that a 29-year-old woman with Down syndrome can live the life she wants, rejecting a guardianship request from her parents that would have allowed them to keep her in a group home against her will.
The ruling thrilled Jenny Hatch and her supporters, who included some of the countrys most prominent disability advocates.
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For more than a year, Margaret Jean Hatch, whom everyone calls Jenny, had been under a temporary guardianship and living in a series of group homes, removed from the life she knew. Hatch wanted to continue working at a thrift store and living with friends Kelly Morris and Jim Talbert, who employed her and took her into their home last year when she needed a place to recover after a bicycle accident.
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The fact that they didn't speak out sooner is an indication to me that they don't care about public scrutiny but care about the best long term care for their daughter.
They couldn't speak out sooner because of the way the system is set up. This is not the first time this has happened.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/07/10/eva-cameron-abandoned-dev_n_1663334.html
In the above story, the mother abandoned her daughter in Tennessee because they have the best state help for homeless people with disabilities.
The fact that they didn't speak out sooner is an indication to me that they don't care about public scrutiny but care about the best long term care for their daughter.
They couldn't speak out sooner because of the way the system is set up. This is not the first time this has happened.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/07/10/eva-cameron-abandoned-dev_n_1663334.html
In the above story, the mother abandoned her daughter in Tennessee because they have the best state help for homeless people with disabilities.
This story should not be an indictment on the parents. It should be an indictment on the systems in place to deal with adults with disabilities.
Group homes are restrictive. A better way to achieve independence is through as supported apartment. The group home her parents placed her in took away her cell phone and laptop, did not let her go to work or see her friends, and watched her round the clock, even watched her take a shower. How is that encouraging independence?This could very well be what is going on here. The parents might want her to live in the group home setting to encourage her independence, knowing that one day, they will not be able to care for her at home- so they want her independant as possible, now, while they are still here and able. That is just part of their job as parents.
Except Jenny is an adult and her parents do not get to control where she lives. They do not get to legally make this decision.If she leaves her parents and moves in with another family, this defeats what the parents are trying to do.
Here is the whole story. Jenny worked at a thrift store, rode her bike to work everyday, was involved in political campaigns, went to church and saw friends. She got into a bike accident after riding her bike on a rainy night and had back surgery. She then stayed with her employers, likely because she needed care after surgery. Either her parent's couldn't take care of her, didn't want her, she didn't want to live with them or they just didn't get along. Her mom then filed for plenary (total) guardianship and forced her to live in a group against her will and requested the power to restrict who Kenny can have contact with. Here is the petition in PDF.We do not need to judge without knowing the whole story.
The controversy against Jenny's family has nothing to do with services. Jenny did move into a group temporarily to qualify for services. Once she qualified for services, she moved back to her employer's. After all that, her mom petitioned for total guardianship and requested she remain in a group home against her will and to decide who she can contact. Here is the petition in PDF.Chewy, yesterday I looked into what you quoted in post 43 and determined the same thing. Jim and Kelly appear to have replicated the circumstances that Jenny's family had already put into place in order that Jenny receive services. I am not quite certain as to why Jenny's family is demonized and Jim/Kelly are not.
I gave all the information, including a court document, guardianship laws and Jenny's level of independence proving her parents just wanted to control her.MsFacetious, I am not going to speak for anyone else but I dont believe you are jumping on a bandwagon based upon a headline. I think you are working with as much information as the rest of us have, and I am glad you brought the case here.
Well, try being bounced through group homes against your will, not allowed to have access to your cell phone or laptop, not being allowed to go to work or see friends and family you want to see, being forced to work a job you don't want to work at a sheltered workshop and being watched 24/7, even watched taking a shower. Especially when you were well integrated into the community. That is what Jenny was going through. She ran away from 4 group homes in a year and expressed she wanted to live with her employers. Again, the controversy is not about services. It's about her parent's request her guardianship is overly restrictive and her being forced to live in a group home against her wishes.[/QUOTE]I am looking at the situation with a different lens and I think that there is more to all of this than pure heartlessness on the part of Jenny's family. I think Jim and Kelly thought she needed to be saved when it is very possible she didnt, and at the end of the day they are following a path that has already been traveled by Jenny's family.
Her father did state she requires "24 hour supervision and special care." My 20 year old brother has an intellectual disability. He is not as high functioning as Jenny, but does not require 24 hour supervision and can possibly one day live in his own apartment with support.But we will see how this all shakes out. I dont think her family is required to make a statement. They may very well believe that it is no one's business but theirs.
Her mom petitioned for total guardianship, as opposed to limited guardianship and requested she remain in a group home against her will and to decide who she can contact. Here is the petition in PDF.I agree that only one side has been presented and what the employers have said might be true from their point of view but it may not be the whole picture.
You said people are making assumptions about Jenny's parents based on a one sided story. Yet you made assumptions about Jenny's abilities based solely on the fact she has a cognitive disability.Whatever the best place for Jenny is, I am not sure that the Facebook brouhaha and advocacy groups with t-shirts saying justice for jenny etc is in Jenny's best interests and I think I understand why her family doesn't want to comment.
We do not "deal with the court system quietly." We don't hold criminal trials behind closed doors. Why? To prevent the court system from abusing people's rights. If you go to state websites there are court cases that say "defendant allegedly". They retract the names to protect privacy, but these cases are open to the public. The whole point is to prevent courts from abusing people's rights. We do not "negotiate in private".JMO but I think it is usually better to negotiate in private and deal with the court system quietly. The uncertainty is probably stressful enough for Jenny without having strangers knowing all about her business (or thinking they do) and a lot of people around her telling her that she is a victim of gross injustices and that her family is against her.
But Jenny should be able to choose who her guardian is. Family is usually preferable but when the person is capable of expressing who they want their guardian to be, that wish should be respected. In this case Jenny wanted her employers to be her guardians. There are reports that jenny did not get along with her mom and stepdad. If that's the reason Jenny doesn't want them to be her guardians, then so be it. This is an adult who doesn't get along with her parents, not a teenager who doesn't get along with her parents. Adults have rights to cut off contact with their parents. Jenny also has the right cut off contact with her parents if she so chooses. Her parents also forced her to live in a group home against her will and petitioned for overly restrictive guardianship, making her parents unsuitable guardians.Maybe the family has made mistakes and maybe the relationships are strained at the moment but outsiders could make it much worse for a cognitively disabled person who may not always be able to tell when people are talking about things they are mistaken about. If the family is not abusive and there is just disagreement about living arrangements and medical care etc. the family could be a valuable resource and source of support for her some day down the line but it could be more difficult for her if suggestive people get her to think her family are the devil. But maybe they aren't, maybe everybody wants what's good for Jenny but their mileage varies what's the best thing is.