I think I have missed this thread before... Lots of good thoughts.
I've never really considered the trafficking theory seriously because I just can't wrap my brain around the idea of anybody doing that to their precious children... But I know some have done it so I guess my mental insufficiency isn't enough to rule it out. There are some questions and things that don't quite fit, IMO (but then there are things that don't quite fit in most theories that I've considered).
If Misty sold Haleigh alone out of spite, jealousy, overwhelming addiction etc. and Ronald doesn't know about it, boy, she's got some nerve marrying him. Even if we suppose that she feels no shame or guilt and doesn't see any problem in pledging eternal love and support to someone whose heart you've sold... isn't she a bit worried for herself? He's been making death threats from day 1, and we've seen that he can have some violent tendencies, and we've seen that Misty is not a brilliant liar who can sell any story to anybody. She knew she was already being looked askance at the time of the wedding, by some people anyway. How could she have known that she wouldn't slip anything to let Ronald suspect the truth?
I suppose the strange ex-hubby tattoo makes sense under the assumption that she's the sort of obsessed person who would sell an innocent child who gets between the object of her obsession and herself.
If she was sold according to a previous plan by Misty and Ron working together all that external stuff that's happened is a bit problem for me. I feel like if they planned it together they would have wanted to make a show of it acting a bit differently the time immediately preceding the alleged abduction. No fights, no drugs, no binges, no affaires that would make them look suspicious in front of the world; I feel like perps with any sense should pretend to be Mr and Ms Goodyshoes for a while at the time when they know their every step will go under public scrutiny. They did try to portray themselves as the perfect family for some time, but they hadn't exactly acted the part and it fell apart.
If they were in it together, would they go on TV to discuss the case as much as they have, or would they be hoping that the story will go away as soon as possible? If Ron and Misty sold Haleigh it would certainly explain some aspects of their public performances, like why there seemed to be some awkwardness in the public pleas and "if you're watching, baby I love you"s (subjectively to me, anyway). And why Misty didn't know where and when everybody slept, because they didn't. Why she said, "I didn't do anything with, to that little girl". Why did he say that he'd give his life for his daughter's life back? We took it as a slip of the tongue to indicate he knew she was dead but what if it was intentional to try and give the impression she was in the hands of a stranger abductor/killer, not sold as alive.
The wedding would be even more appalling if they had sold Haleigh, IMO. All that talk about she would have wanted it and they've got a flower girl dress for her and there'll be another party when she comes back and they would have wanted her to be there blah blah blah. I could understand the wedding somewhat better if they knew she was dead and wouldn't be coming back wanting her flowergirl dress, ever, so they might just as well get married now than later, as far as Haleigh was concerned. But it was appalling to me to think about them getting married with the possibility that she might be tormented by watching her father partying without her at her abductor's home. However, if they knew for sure that she was alive, knew that she was missing all this, and had deliberately made sure that she wouldn't be there at any family party anytime soon the hypocrisy and cruelty of that justification for the wedding is just too much for words.
What's TN and Granny's role in all this? Why did TN send a relative to check on the kids? Had they an idea of what was going on? Why would Misty say she was tired and have to be begged to babysit by TN if she was going to sell Haleigh on Monday night anyway? (If that story is true.) Wasn't Misty aware of the plan? Was she invited in as a prop?
It would explain why LE said they're looking for a live Haleigh but not why (IMO) they haven't been SEEN to do very much in order to look for a live Haleigh. But maybe they're all very busy behind the scenes and they're trying not to spook the traffickers into killing her or something. It's just... well, I dunno. We've seen massive drug busts after Haleigh went missing but have there been any comparable efforts locating child *advertiser censored* distributors and the like?
It doesn't explain Tommy and Joe. Were they somehow involved in the trafficking scheme? If they were it makes no sense to try to get them in trouble. Why would they point these two individuals out as molesters if the aim is to hide their role in enabling Haleigh to be molested for profit? If their part is revealed, surely they won't protect Misty and/or Ron. If they aren't involved, why point fingers at family, people who know you and who may tell the police a thing or two about your lifestyle if they get pizzed? What were all the rows between Ron and Misty and the rest of the Croslins about?