IMO, this case has risen to the level that it has because of one thing: we know she is concealing the truth, and we (society) can't stand it. It's like in middle school when someone cuts you in line and ignors your faint attempts to get them to move. We feel cheated....we KNOW she's wrong, and *nothing* is being "done about it" (ie. an arrest), at least not yet. She's walking all over our belief that the court system punishes those who do wrong (heck I THOUGHT if you forge a check, or say, 10!! that you go to JAIL! silly me...after all thats why we have these things called LAWS, yes? but I digress...)
At best she is concealing a true tragic accident, at worst she is a monster/killer. But either way she is flaunting it in everyone's faces, and so far getting away with it. No one can get her to reveal the truth, and that is infuriating.
Add to that two parents who are staunchly standing by their daughter instead of playing the usual role of concerned grandparents, and we are furious yet again.... questioning their involvement....wondering how far they are going to protect their daughter. The truth should prevail! But ah, it seems that this family is choosing to ignore that in favor of their "family Bond", however strained it may be.
AND, on TOP of that, add the deep, gut-wrenching feelings of sadness for a little innocent angel who has had to pay the price for her mother's actions (or neglect) with her life, and you've got a raw, emotion-filled situation. We can't look way, we can't blink... we want the TRUTH for this little baby. She deserves at least that much.
But, as sad as this all is, the universe has a way of handling it all... justice will be done... maybe not the way we all expect, but it will be. They will each have their own Judgement Day, and until then they will have to live with what they have chosen to do. (Unfortunately, while I think CA and GA will have a hard time with this, Miss Pathological will not, which is another thing that is infurating us).
So we wait... wait for the truth to come to light... wait for the soul of a little girl to be comforted as her remains are found and laid to proper rest.... I can only hope that we will see that day.... for not knowing is just too difficult to bear. She deserves better.