arkansasmimi
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Originally Posted by arkansasmimi View Post
RBBM, JMHO this is not correct. More than 1 or 2. And those in the majority (being the opposite of minority) most of those that I have read their comments, through these 6 threads and 1 side bar thread. The majority of those, have had a "guilty" before the first witness testified and have not changed their opinion through out the whole States case. How can one make a make an educated opinion on facts of a case without even hearing any? I for one as I many here are in same opinion, we are fine being in the minority. We are trying to be objective. There are many in the minority who are open minded and have backed off on some opinions as testimony was heard, but most of them still have a guilt. I respect their opinion, just don't see how could knowing some of the reasons they have guilt has been disproved. Some, just are not going to change their minds regardless. State has burnden of proof and as of yet, have not proved beyond a reasonable doubt to me. Its ok, I am not one of the 12 that will make the ultimate decision. And on the same token neither are any of the others here on the jury (Lawd I pray not any ways). Unsure why some watch that already have guilty, and sentenced. Don't get that part. JMHO
ETA: I speak only for myself but can read others post to form my opinion of what theirs appears to be from reading multiple posts. JMHO
I have thought guilty from the minute the story broke. I still can't fathom forgetting your child in a car (or even something as simple as not sending a requested lunch along for an elementary field trip, but I see that happen all the time), but I am an older parent who tried for many, many years to be blessed with a baby and so there is nothing more important to me than my children. I don't want/need breaks or escapes. They are my world. But not every parent is like I am. Some could be, I guess, quite possibly capable of being so self centered and egotistical that they can block out the very one who should be their main focus. I will never understand how he forgot that precious child, but if I'm being honest, I could not vote guilty anymore.
RBBM.
PLEASE do not take this as being snarky or rude. Totally not meant to be. Honest question. Do you ever go out with friends without your child(ren) Shopping? Movie? anywhere for leisure or me time? Or are you what I have seen referred to as a helicopter parent hoovering over their child 24/7? Everyone needs "me" time. That is being honest. And sometimes being a parent it may just be being able to shut the bathroom door for alone time. It is not and should not even be thought of as selfish to need that time alone. JMHO people that are the helicopter type parents, have issues of their own. (*we all have issues but hope I making sense). No one should be made feel like they are horrible parent for needing "me time" ** and I am not referring to Sexting.
Shoot, think of all the time people are looking at their devices (phones, computers. laptops. tablets, tv) following this trial and posting/reading on WS about it or any other thread. Where are any of ya'll parents with small children? I have 2 dogs and grown children and grand children.. Responsibilities that I do take care of, but also take time to do something I enjoy. Oops what about FB or twitter? Texting? when your children are around. See, I just don't like the blanket cover. I am good and someone else who doesn't fit my normal are wrong. That not reality JMHO.