It's hard trying to fill in the gaps especially when the two closest to KR I believe hold the missing pieces and are not assisting LE.
When you can't complete the puzzle it sometimes helps if you can find another similar situation to try and see if there is any pattern. Profiling
past murder case's and murderer's does sometimes seem to throw up very similar traits. I have read of the Baden-Clay case on here and have read
where some similar situations have shown up with KR's case.
Here is one I found from 1982 which I found to have a few very scary similarities.
Peggy Dianovsky was the mother of three young sons, she was married to Robert Dianovsky (his family name is from the Baltic area close to area where BR family is from).
At age 31 one of the sons after intense therapy was able to recall a violent fight the night Peggy went missing seeing his father hold
a knife to his mother's throat. This was was 24 hours before she would go missing for good (BR and KR argued the night before she went missing).
She left with a few things in a plastic bag (BR said KR left with a handbag & clutch purse).
The couple were very close to final settlement on their divorce (KR reportably stated she was leaving after SR's 21st birthday).
Robert Dianovsky reported Peggy missing 5 days after the night of the last fight (BR was 3 days).
The boys were not allowed to talk about Peggy after she was gone (SR is not talking about her mother).
Robert stated she left voluntarily taking a few clothes and leaving behind her 3 boys and car (VR stated "I think she has run away, I don't think she will come back").
Peggy tucked her boys in and kissed them good night every night but somehow they hid their secret memories for 20 years so Robert was obviously a very good manipulator and intimidating as it took the boys that long to feel safe enough to go to authorities. Unfortunately there was no happy ending for justice as all evidence was circumstancial and there was no body ever found.
That's one thing which I have never worked out why hasn't SR assisted LE but when you read past cases like the one above you realise when someone who I think needs support from their parents and then lose one it wouldn't be hard to block out certain situations especially if it was violent. You don't want to imagine that a violent situation resulting in someones death if proven could totally alter your whole life. Hard to believe that intense therapy was required to unblock such a violent scene of a knife held to that boy's mothers throat but who wouldn't have wanted to have it blocked out.
I have always been disappointed with SR's stance by not assisting LE but to me now I have realised that she is another victim who has been controlled and manipulated but I hope it doesn't take her 20 years for her to feel safe enough to share any secret memories she may have. VR could be in the same situation, manipulated to help while blocking out the truth.
The boys asked their father about their mother but he would reply that he couldn't remember so Robert Dianovsky erased his wife from their lives.
I have no doubt that BR did the same to KR by trying to erase her from his life with VR's comments 'I think she has run away, I don't think she will come back" and BR's comment saying that he believed an evil stranger is to blame on her disappearance.
I have never heard a murderer profiled as an 'eraser killer' but this profile of an eraser killer I think fits KRs situation:
- he is an intelligent, careful, methodical killer eg body transported in KR's car.
- he is a compulsive, pathological liar whose lies are meant to get a reaction out of others eg evil stranger.
- he makes up stories big and small often lying for no apparent reason eg fuel gauge.
- he fabricates evidence to exagerate his accomplishments, wealth, success, social, standing eg told media to get facts correct about his financial situation.
- he knows how to use words, lies and actions to manipulate others eg SR & BR
- he leads what appears to be a normal & productive life but undernetah the surface unbeknown to almost anyone he has used all his well honed abilities to lie, manipulate and fabricate reality in order to commit the perfect murder.
- his goal is to erase his victim to expunge her from the record of his life.
- in his mind he is simply rearranging the world to better suit his needs to let him make a fresh start eg signing over the business.
- he harbours a cluster of psychological traits very unusual in the general public. He doesn't experience the almost universal psychological reaction called fear. It is
not that he is brave or that he has conquered fear. He does experience an abstract, emotionally colourless sensation when put under great stress especially
when caught in a situation
he is not confident he can talk his way out of when he is in no longer in control of everyone around him eg he had lost control of KR.
- eraser killers employ cunning, stealth and often meticulous planning to overcome their trusting prey, frequently employing the agonizing slow and terror induced method of
suffocation or strangulation in order to minnimise the type of messy crime evidence that could get them caught.
- they kill with total calm and control.
- they are a master of deceit and an expert manipulator.
- his killing is carried out in total secrecy.
- he is killing the woman in question as she has become inconvenient. In his eyes she no longer meets his needs. She is not allowed to leave him or take away anything he holds dear, be it a home or children or the lifestyle he has come to enjoy.
- he plans his killing well in advance of the final encounter.
- he will exhibit neither mourning or real signs of emotional loss and will almost always exhibit strangely inappropriate behaviour and speech after the mysterious death of his wife.
- he will be using his full array of skills to direct any inquiries or police investigation towards fictious threats and other suspects and away from himself.
- he is generally intelligent though he greatly overestimates his talents.
- he believes that he is smarter and better than the rest of us, certainly smarter than the police.
- to achieve his goal he may follow one of two distinct strategies. Either he can erase the victims body by destroying it entirely or secreting it where it won't be found or he can rearrange the crime or stage a whole false scenario to erase all connection between himself and any criminal act. Either way he appears to remain free and clear of any involvement in the act.
- eraser killers hardly ever commit suicide as they feel no guilt for what they have done. Only in the rarest of instances will they ever admit their crimes.
I was 99.9% sure after one week BR premeditated the situation and has played it out, sometimes well and other times badly. I can't be 100% sure but hopefully i can add that .1% some time soon.
AR for me has no involvement at all. I believe KR did confide in him re leaving when SR was 21 as she didn't want friends and family to know the true situation.
As to SR & BR's involvement I think there is some after the final act to what extent I can't even guess.
BR shut up from talking as he was making too many statement mistakes pure and simple, told to shut up or sink yourself.
I think the body was somewhere else before the final area where KR was found. I don't know if KR had life insurance but I think Victoria is 7 years before insurance payout if no body is found.
I think her body was placed there a few months after she went missing in the hope that it would be found as there was too many opportunities very early on to hide or bury her body in a far better place.
BR's most idiotic media comment to The Australian who had printed that the family was battling financial pressures 'let me tell you something - you cant even get your facts right'.That's coming from someone who when questioned 'where were you on the day your wife went missing' and somehow just a wee fact of a 2 plus hour window when you took the car for a drive was left out. The fuel gauge wasn't the only thing not registering on the day!
Puzzling for me is the person who claims he saw two men and one with with a shovel near where KR's body was found and would have no problem identifying the expressionless man.
He said the two men resembled BR and VR isn't that enough to make an arrest? Another local says he saw someone walk out of the bush with a shovel straight into his head lights.
I dont think even BR would be that thick to walk out with a shovel into head lights you would hide until the vehicle is gone. The person said it was late December he shared the story with locals and it was doing the rounds at dinner parties and he later reported it to local police. When KR's body was found he recounted the story to homicide detectives.
Why wouldn't the local police have given the info to detectives? it wasn't as though the area around hadn't been searched re Gisborne. The person made the effort to advise local police but not followed up, just seems odd. So two sightings and yet KR's body was found in a place not what you would consider to be a well hidden spot.
KR was unfortuante that BR was basically her first love at an early age i think around 16 years old and with no experience of having had previous boyfriends she had nothing to judge him against and he would have found her easy to manipulate from day one as he would be too street wise for her. I know plenty of guys who are no good with women either control freaks orpossevive. None of them obvioulsy gone to the extreme, one did time for assault, one has 8 protection orders on 8 different women, those two have been numbers 1 and 2 on the list for years but there is 20 on the list. I wouldn't think they would be like that but takes a while for true colours to come through. I said a year ago i was going to write a book on the top 10 and their stalking and possessive traits so young girls can see the danger signs before its too late. Also have few stories from the women who were in bad possessive and manipulating relationships. It won't help everyone but if one is saved from a situation like KR it will be worth it. First copy will be going to my 12 year old niece. Believe me some of the stories from the guys are horror stories and you would think couldn't happen but they did.
So sorry I haven't given you much (but I did like reading the traits of an eraser killer) but I will get some satisfaction knowing someone is reading it and hopefully abusing the crap out of me to someone else.
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ps
you know who it's going to be!
