Snipped by me.
I agree. And we haven't heard too much about him, other than that IG account which is disturbing, but also confusing.
I'd like to know more about his teen years - were there signs that he was heading in a disturbing direction. So far, we don't know much about him at all.
I know people will say that don't want to know anything about him other than he is a killer. I respect that, and I hope people will also respect that some of us are very interested in finding out what makes these killers tick, what send them on that path, etc.
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I was a daycare worker years back and remember a couple kids who socially couldn't cut it. One boy I remember him so well. He was about 10.
Other kids would try to interact and play with him but no matter what he would get weird. I was young at the time - 19- but realized he wanted badly to have friends but his desperation and feelings of inferiority just caused him to do strange things and not interact well.
Like he'd wouldn't get the flow of a game or imaginative play and would always weirdly add something that would turn it around to attention on him, even negative attention, sort of disrupting things.
He clearly lacked complex social skills but in a sense he didn't have the talent or ability to be a leader (and initiate a logical and fun game OR expand one in a way that was creative but made sense) and wasn't content with being a follower and just going along with and enjoying what someone else had initiated.
He always had to disrupt what the kids were playing with sort of non-sequiters or something goofy, or annoying.
I remember watching him and just wishing I could micromanage what he was doing and show him how he could do it differently and more acceptably. But it wasn't my role and I wasn't at all trained for that.
I was young but sort of saw this as foreshadowing of an isolated life as an angry misfit.
I'm curious as to what goes on in their homes. Are they raised to be entitled? Not given warm love and parenting that utilizes humor and calmness? Are they not put in intensive therapy at a young age to learn how to socialize?
Nowadays they have something called dialectal behavioral therapy. It's often a group therapy that has proved successful with the hardest of patients - those with borderline personality disorder- but it's used to treat anyone (often teens) who exhibit harmful behaviors and socialization issues.
It has roots in Buddhist ideology and is really centered on mindfulness and accountability. I happen to know about it because of a friend who is a psych and works with borderlines and because of my job which has resulted in some messed up kids due to extreme combat between parents. A couple have been involved in this group therapy and have made leaps and bounds.
I wonder if something like that would be important to target toward anti-social loners who don't seem to have social skills. It might prevent them from totally twisting into the monsters we see today.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy | Psychology Today