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Hahaha! I know the feeling of hesitation and uncertainty, trust me. I always feel completely out of my league amongst all these professionals here! I often roll my eyes at my own posts afterwards, so I can imagine what others must think. But it’s not about us, it’s about all these people that need our help. And they need it desperately. So, I think all of our thoughts and theories are invaluable! Even if one idea sparks another and another and it snowballs into a resolution, that’s amazing! And I’ve seen it happen. So we must keep on keeping on.@MadMcGoo @coffeeandacig @Melt71
Thanks so much to each of you for replying! I get so tongue-tied on these boards that I often hesitate to post my theories or hunches. I get to feeling as though you all will think I'm utterly stupid for making some of these suggestions, but then there's the feeling in my gut that pushes me to pursue a potential match, especially when there are so many uncertainties in the information we have to work with. This is one of those cases. Then there's the whole idea that we don't want to bombard LE with PM submissions that really aren't worthy of a comparison. So trying to keep the balance is always at the front of my mind. I don't want NamUs or anyone else to see my email addy only to say "Oh, goodness, it's her again. I'm not even opening the mail."
I will contact authorities on both Billy and JD's case. @Melt71 is right...maybe it will encourage them to give these cases another look and more resources. Thanks again, and of course, I'll update the thread as warranted.
Like you said, there are too many uncertainties and mistakes or human errors when it comes to these things, we can’t afford not to broaden our ways of thinking sometimes. I mean, we’ve seen unidentified black women turn out to be missing young white girls. And middle-aged men who probably died in a cave in the 70s turn out to be outlaws who were dead barely after the turn of the century. Ya know, who’da thunk those things?!
You never know, we might think we are bombarding an agency with “worthless” submissions, but for all we know they’ve not thought about the case in 20 years. Or they’ve never heard about about it at all. So, yes, let’s not be afraid of people seeing our names and thinking “Oh lord, here we go again ”. It really does mean we care. And I know we all do in our own ways. Thank you all for what you do!
And of course, keep us updated!