Gardener - I'm snipping #2 from your post.
2. While telling the story she mentions she called the fire department because,
"Isn't that what all good mothers do?" It's as if the story is being told to illustrate how good a mother she is and not to show anything about Todd. She was responsible and tried to get him help and he just laughed when they found him.
I really, really, believe this is the point of her interviews. I don't think it's to get Todd off of death row. It's certainly not to apologize for the pain he has caused. It's to let people know that this isn't her fault.
When people speak freely, in an unscripted manner, they leak who the really are, and what their motivations and priorities are. Her surface motivation is to let people know that her son is not a monster. But her underlying motivation is to let people know that SHE did not make this monster.
She gave up everything for him.
She did everything she could.
She is in hell now.
She's making excuses for him like crazy, and it's all about how it reflects upon her.
Hey, he didn't kill her when she couldn't eat his jambalaya! She did a GOOD JOB!
Those people shouldn't haven't been so mean to him.
I am glad she told that story. It's another example of a kid going to great lengths to get attention. A narcissist, raised by a narcissist, is going to be a vessel of need that can never be filled.
Side note: It's so bizarre that one week ago I was reading his juvenile docs and feeling so terrible for his mother.
(goodness, was that seriously only one week ago?)
End ramble.