Well, I posted something earlier, got cold feet and deleted because I feared someone might take it the wrong way. It's so difficult to write some things and convey your intent. People are so easily offended at times. But here goes, because it speaks to your post. No disrespect to anyone just another perspective. Please read to the end before judgement
previous deleted post:
I just had an OMG moment after my last post
Please don't jump to any conclusions until you read the entire post. I'm not victim bashing, I'm drawing from experience and events I've seen in the news over the years. My thoughts only.
We suspect PF has some kind of personality disorder and that his relationship with KB was probably rife with many ups and downs in it's relatively short duration. He is a man with no empathy, anger issues and serious commitment issues. Poor Kelsey, innocent, naive, isolated from family with a new baby, a job with a long commute. Imagine an argument breaks out, maybe around a Sept. rodeo. Did KB suspect something about KK and confront him and in her upset and possible sense of abandonment, utter the fatal words about self harm and that of the baby? Many times postpartum depression hides beneath the surface as well and with a partner that has no compassion or empathy and anger lurking beneath the surface, it could have been overwhelming at that moment for KB. Words spoken while in despair and emotional pain. That's ALL PF needed to launch into his plan to destroy her and "justify" why he needed to do it. NOW, he had an excuse for his evil intent. He pretends to comfort her, KB takes that as "everything will be o.k., he will change," because she desperately needs to believe that and pulls herself back together.
I don't write this without deep sadness for what KB was living through and trying to make better. I doubt she told her mother certain things and I think KB really believed everything would be o.k. SHE wanted it to work.
Make no mistake. PF is an abuser and utter monster. Sick, twisted brain and there's NO excuse for KK following after him.
Again, just my thoughts
edit to add: I do not for one moment believe KB could have harmed K.