Just Jayla
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Cindy said in one of her videotaped FBI or law enforcement interviews that the boy had agreed to have nothing, absolutely nothing to do with the baby, ever, and that is why they did not go after child support. She was adamant about that. If there had been a trust fund, then Casey, on the baby's behalf, could have tried to make a claim on the guy's estate when he passed on, because by supporting the child this way, he was the presumed father. This happens all the time when a married man, quietly supports his child and his family never learns about it until they get just such a lawsuit in the mail upon his death, wanting a portion of the estate, life insurance, etc. Cindy must have forgotten about that little short notice story of Caysee's to the DCF, or she would have had a ready excuse for that to LE to add to her story about the will they had Casey sign. Right? It must be hard to keep all the lies straight! This poem hung in nursery when I was a child:
Children Learn What They Live
By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.
If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.
Copyright © 1972 by Dorothy Law Nolte
If you live with Cindy, you learn to be Casey!
CA also said something to the effect of 'if the father ever came back around....the A's did not want him to think he had any rights to Caylee'
Of course he would have rights! It seems that CA wanted ultimate control of KC & Caylee's lives, while KC wanted nothing to do with 'that child.' This goes to the heart of the case, as far as KC's detachment. While I agree we all can have crazy nicknames for our kids, I can see how 'that child,' used repetetively, would catch DCF's attention.
On the other hand, she refers to TL as 'that kid' a couple of times, too (texted "I really like this kid" to AH.) Maybe another KC'ism?