Found Deceased GA - Quinton Simon - Discovered Missing From Home By Non-Custodial Mom - Savannah #2

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I will NEVER understand how a parent can take the life of their child. Unconditional love in this situation does not exist.

Devastating news and I'm absolutely heartbroken for that precious angel baby.

LS not remembering anything is convenient considering she is the prime suspect in her son's death. She supposedly remembers seeing the door open and that he was gone but nothing else? I don't believe a word that comes out of her mouth as far as her children are concerned.

LE may be waiting to bring charges once his body is recovered. I pray that it is so that he may be laid to rest and bring closure to those that did love him.

JMO
 
I think it may be true that she doesn't remember. Whatever happened to that sweet baby, whatever she did or whoever did in her presence, she might have blocked out. <modsnip>
Well I don't buy it, especially if she was the one to text the BS at 5:29. JMO If she awoke to find the baby dead, not remembering what happened, at least in my case if I really didn't know what had happened, I sure hope my first urge would not be to throw him in the trash. Not dissing your ideas LauraAnne, just that it makes me so angry. It's the going in and out of a block out, ie allegedly hurts the baby, plans (imo) to start the coverup, gets rid of the body, and then can't remember. But we still don't know what her story is yet, I guess.
 
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UPDATE #4 (Oct 13) with new info in RED; corrected info in GRAY

~2019
Q's older brother, Z, born - current age "around 3" (18@1:35)

Jan 8, 2021 (51)
Q born - current age 20 months (14) - cf Sat Jan 8

~Apr 2021 ("1 year and 3 months" prior to Jul 30 2022 FB post)
MomLS begins relationship with MomsBoyfriendDY (48)


~Jul 2021 ("since Q was five months old")
GrandmaBJH awarded custody of Q and Q's older brother (14)


Sat Jan 8
MomLS posts on FB: "I want to scream a big happy birthday to my 2nd baby Quinton hard to believe You 1 years old. Mommy loves and missed and will see you soon. To spoil and love all over you. Happy birthday Quinton I love you and I miss you oh so much" (51)

Wed Mar 16
MomLS posts on FB: "In need of someone to watch my boys while I work 2-10 my kids are 3 and 1 and I'm willing to pay" (50)


Apr 2022
GA Dept of Human Services sued to require MomLS to remit monthly child support payments for her two sons (34)

~Apr 2022 ("about six months ago")
SitterDM began watching Q & Z (9@0:28) at GrandmaBJH's request (36@1:16:11)

~summer 2022 ("within the past couple of months")
MomLS moved in with her mother GrandmaBJH (14)


Sun Jun 6 (49)
MomLS gave birth to Q's younger sister (14), daughter of MomsBoyfriendDY (48), whom SitterDM also watched (36@1:25:40)

Tue Aug 9
MomLS posts on FB: "Things are starting to look up!!! Got a new job making [money emoji] (47)


Wed Sep 7
MomLS called police during argument with GrandmaBJH, during which MomLS stated she was on probation and didn't want trouble and MomLS's brother stated that MomLS had history of stealing to buy drugs (22)

Thu Sep 8
GrandmaBJH filed eviction notice for MomLS and MomsBoyfriendDY, stating that they damaged her property (22)

Fri Sep 16
Sheriff's office mailed MomLS and MomsBoyfriendDY eviction notice from GrandmaBJH (14)


Sun Sep 18
MomLS posts on FB: "Can’t even horse play with my man and kids without someone coming in the room assuming the worse" (46)


Wed Sep 21
After MomLS failed to appear in court, judge stipulated that she pay $150/month in child support beginning November 1 (34)

sometime in Sep 2022
GrandmaBJH left for 3-week work assignment in IL, hoping to get back before evicted daughter MomLS and MomsBoyfriendDY move out (14)


Sun Sep 25
MomLS posts on FB: "In need of homes for rent in the Savannah ga area within 800-1300 price range if anyone knows anybody or any place that kids friendly neighborhood please let me know" (45)

around Mon Sep 26 - Sat Oct 1
MomLS and MomsBoyfriendDY presumably received eviction notice from GrandmaBJH (14)


Tue Oct 4
SitterDM watched kids, who then went home that night (9@0:30) around 4:30 or 5PM (36@1:21:55)


WEDN OCT 5: LAST REPORTED SIGHTING / DAY ONE OF SEARCH-----------------------------------------
search incl. residence & neighborhood - drone, K9, dive team, helicopter

  • 5:29AM - SitterDM received text [[from MomLS (22)] from MomsBoyfriendDY (36@1:22:20)] that she would not be babysitting Q & Z that morning (9@0:44)
  • 6:00AM - LAST REPORTED SIGHTING (1) by MomsBoyfriendDY (14) when he left for work that morning (22) and by MomLS, who told police she saw him in his playpen (25@0:45); According to StepGrandpaTH (who owns the house but was out of town; GrandmaBJH was still driving in from out of state), people at home at the time: MomLS, MomsBoyfriendDY, 3 kids, MomsBrother (7)
  • 7:30AM-8:30AM - SitterDM and family outside home across the street but did not see Q (36@1:26:30)
  • 9:00AM - SitterDM received text [from a grandparent (22)] [from MomsBoyfriendDY (36@1:44:30)] asking if she'd seen them, but when she went to residence to help search, she was turned away (9@1:03); SitterDM states that she told MomLS to call police (36@1:30:00)
  • [TIME?] - GrandmaBJH learned about Q's disappearance from phone call from SitterDM (14)
  • 9:30AM (14) 9:39AM (17@2:55) - Reported missing to authorities by MomLS (1) who said she "woke up, her door was open... thinks someone came in and took him" (32@0:13)
  • 9:42AM - LE dispatched to residence (1), searched home (4)
  • around 10:15AM ("about a half hour later") - SitterDM offered to watch other children, took them home with her (36@1:33:00)
  • 12:34PM - CCPD state they are searching area on foot with a drone and K9 unit (1)
  • 2:04PM - CCPD state they are shutting down Chatham Parkway, Louis B Mills, and Buckhalter Rd to continue search (1)
  • 2:48PM - CCPD state that Buckhalter Rd was reopened (1)
  • around 3PM - StepGrandpaTH arrived home from out of town (16@0:02)
  • 3:33PM - ChiefJH met with media - nothing to indicate abduction; "does not appear to be a custody dispute, and all parties are cooperating"; have responded to two calls for service at the home in the last two years (neither for missing child) (2)
  • 5:58PM - @BrettWSAV states FBI assisting (6)
  • 6:52PM - CCPD state ground search continues; plan to search with helicopter and heat-seeking tech (2)
  • [TIME?] - Dive team also on scene (7) - possibly to search pool, which is included in later list of locations searched within first five days (25@0:55)
  • 10:08PM - CCPD state 75 LE officers and volunteers combed area (2)
  • [TIME?] - LE secured search warrant for residence (10@1:15)
  • PM - FBI Evidence Response Team & CCPD search home with flashlights & cameras (8)
  • PM - LE cruiser remained on scene at residence overnight (14)
  • [TIME?] - LE contacted BioDad and "did not believe he was involved" (4) due to the fact he "works very much, very north of here" (10@0:34), despite MomLS telling StepGrandpaTH that BioDad came and picked him up (7)
  • [TIME?] - neighbors state they'd seen Q out wandering the home and street in the past (7)

Thur Oct 6: DAY TWO
search incl. neighborhood, trash cans, sheds on grandparents' other property, "other locations" - ATVs

  • 2:00AM - Search ended for night (17@1:35)
  • 3:30AM - GrandmaBJH arrived home (16@0:03) but with crime scene tape up had to stay in motel (14)
  • 5:53AM - CCPD states no overnight developments (3)
  • 8:00AM - Searching resumed (17@1:35)
  • 10:11AM - FBI on scene with ATVs (11), searching trash cans in neighborhood including SitterDM's (12) and locked sheds on StepGrandpaTH's other property (15)
  • around 11:00 AM - FBI returned to residence after sweep of neighborhood (18@0:54)
  • 11:11AM - LE is "obtaining other search warrants at other locations today" (13)
  • AM - GrandmaBJH, who was working out of town in IL, states in phone interview with media "I couldn’t imagine that she would hurt one of her kids but I can’t say the thought hasn’t gone through my mind a hundred thousand times" (14), states on camera, "I don't know what to believe right now... I don't know if I can trust her" (16@1:09)
  • AM - ChiefJH states at presser that they are conducting interviews and "downloading phones and things of that nature" today (17@0:35)
  • AM - Neighbors claim MomLS and MomsBoyfriendDY returned to residence that morning after questioning (19)
  • 6:00PM - arguing is heard throughout the day, including at 6PM as recorded in VIDEO @ timestamp 1:30 (19)
  • PM - BioDad on his way from out of town to help search (18@1:50)

Fri Oct 7: DAY THREE
search incl. phone data, ponds with waders and poles

  • 10:00AM - ChiefJH gives update as part of Chatham County Commission Meeting - exhausted grid search; still investigating collected phone data and other avenues; still being assisted by FBI (20)
  • 2:00PM - search continues; pond searched with waders & poles (21)
  • [TIME?] ReporterBB(WSAV) requests bodycam video from responding officers to the missing persons call (28) - xrf Mon Oct 10
  • [TIME?] Search warrant issued for swimming pool at residence (34)
Sat Oct 8: DAY FOUR
search

  • 8:09AM - CCPD update on SM - still searching along with FBI, no need of volunteers (23)
Sun Oct 9: DAY FIVE
search incl. "specific areas"

  • 9:34AM - CCPD update on SM - "re-canvassing some specific areas" along with FBI (24)
  • 2:03PM - CCPD update on SM with poster & tip line (26)
Mon Oct 10: DAY SIX
search incl. emptying swimming pool

  • 8:58AM - CCPD update on SM - "no overnight developments," will have presser at 2PM (27)
  • 10:53AM - ReporterBB(WSAV) posts that request for body cam footage has been denied by county attorney "due to an ongoing criminal prosecution and investigation" (28) - xref Fri Oct 7
  • 12:10AM - ReporterBB(WSAV) posts that county attorney claims clerical error on previous statement, now held "due to ongoing law enforcement investigation" (29) - xref Fri Oct 7
  • 1:21PM - ReporterBB(WSAV) posts video of LE with "at least 11 police cars" using a pump to drain the pool at the residence. (30)
  • 2:28PM - ChiefJH spoke at police presser: over 40 FBI agents supporting investigation as requested by CCPD (31@0:40) - "don't have anything confirmed... looking at criminal investigation aspect" but "everybody is being looked at" (31@1:54) - went back to re-search home today (31@3:53) - "can't answer" if family members continue to be cooperative (31@5:30) - do not know where MomLS & MomsBoyfriendDY are currently but ChiefJH believes they have been staying at residence (31@5:53) - feels they have gotten further along in investigation but can't give specifics (31@7:25) - BioDad not a suspect (31@9:06)
  • 3:08PM - Chatham Fire Dept at residence with hose trucks, presumably to assist in draining swimming pool (33)
  • [TIME?] - FBI tapes black plastic over windows of residence, presumably to search for evidence using luminol (34)
  • 4:06PM - Police and First Responders have left residence (33)
  • 4:32PM - Q's family has returned to residence, declines to speak to journalist (33)
  • PM - "Gray Hughes Investigates" channel livestreams reaction to SitterDM's FB live stream -
    • SitterDM kept kids daily from around 5:30 or 6 until 3:30 or later (36@1:21:15) on Mondays through Fridays and sometimes at night (36@1:21:50); charged $30/day for two boys, didn't charge for baby sister S (36@1:25:40);
    • SitterDM states BJH worked out of town (36@1:17:11); she would call/text GrandmaBJH if she noticed things wrong, including:
      • SitterDM had to call MomsBoyfriendDY to get milk for Q's baby sister S [on unknown date] (36@1:19:00);
      • SitterDM sent BJH pictures of bruises on Q [on unknown date] (36@1:19:10); "the other day" [unknown date] Q had belt bruises on arm and neck (36@1:41:42)
    • SitterDM offered to keep children [on unknown date] until GrandmaBJH got home but GrandmaBJH wanted to give MomLS a second chance (36@1:20:00);
    • SitterDM outlines follwing timeline:
      • Tue 4:30 or 5:00PM - kids went home (36@1:21:55) - crf Tue Oct 4;
      • Wed 5:29AM - received text from MomsBoyfriendDY saying the kids are not coming, MomLS is with them (36@1:22:20) - crf Wed Oct 5;
      • Wed 7:30AM SitterDM's husband left for work (36@1:25:50);
      • Wed 8:30AM SitterDM's son left for work (36@1:26:00);
      • SitterDM outside from 7:30AM-8:30AM and did not see Q (36@1:26:30) - crf Wed Oct 5;
      • Wed 9:00AM "have you seen Q" text from MomsBoyfriendDY while SitterDM was on way home from McDonald's; called him back; he said they couldn't find Q (36@1:44:30) - crf Wed Oct 5;
      • SitterDM offered to help look, MomBoyfriendDY said, "we already looked;" MomLS sitting on porch smoking (36@1:27:15);
      • SitterDM called GrandmaBJH, told MomLS to call police (36@1:30:00), police came and blocked SitterDM in (36@1:30:45) - crf Wed Oct 5;
      • around 10:15AM - SitterDM came back "about a half hour later," offered to take other kids, called GrandmaBJH (36@1:33:00) - crf Wed Oct 5; "this morning" [unknown date], GrandmaBJH came to SitterDM's house to confront her, accuse her of kidnapping (36@1:25:45)
Tue Oct 11: DAY SEVEN
CCPD has "seized evidence"

  • 10:18AM - CCPD update on SM - LE has "seized evidence that we believe will help move this case forward" (35)
  • 6:58PM - Video posted of confrontation between GrandmaBJH & SitterDM [from unknown date] regarding memorial/prayer service being organized by SitterDM; SitterDM states that Georgia DCFC has open case involving Q (37)
  • [TIME?] GrandmaBJH's FB had post asking for help getting pool fixed; post has since been removed (37)
Wed Oct 12: DAY EIGHT: LEILANI SIMON NAMED PRIME SUSPECT -------------------------------------------
CCPD believes Q is deceased; names LEILANI SIMON as prime suspect
  • 10:19AM - CCPD update on SM - LE will be at residence with search dogs and investigators; expect to schedule presser for tomorrow. (38)
  • 11:54AM - ReporterBB (WSAV) posts video of FBI SUVs pulling into driveway next door to residence (39)
  • 12:51PM - ReporterBB (WSAV) posts video of MomLS and unknown passenger refusing to speak to media, leaving neighborhood in white Chevy Silverado (40)
  • 10:21PM - ReporterBB (WSAV) posts that Q's family has been informed that he is not alive (41)
  • 10:38PM - CCPD confirms that they believe Q is deceased; name LEILANI SIMON as prime suspect though no arrests made and no charges filed; will hold presser tomorrow (42)
  • 11:28PM - ReporterBB (WSAV) posts that, according to Q's family, Q's body has not been found but the search currently involves a landfill (43)
Thu Oct 13: DAY NINE
  • 8:27AM - ReporterBB (WSAV) posts that, according to GrandmaBJH, MomLS doesn't remember anything about the morning Q disappeared (44)

SOURCES
(1) ChathamCountyPD FB post (Oct 5)
(2) ChathamCountyPD FB post (Oct 5)
(3) ChathamCountyPD FB post (Oct 5)
(4) Police searching for missing toddler in Georgia neighborhood (APNews - Oct 5)
(5) Search for toddler missing from coastal Georgia neighborhood continues (Fox5 - Oct 5)
(6) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 5)
(7) Chatham County police, neighbors search for missing 20-month-old child (WSAV - Oct 5)
(8) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 5)
(9) WSAV3 video (Oct 5)
(10) WSAV FB video (Oct 5)
(11) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 6)
(12) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 6)
(13) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 6)
(14) Search continues for Chatham Co. toddler last seen Wednesday morning (WTOC - Oct 6)
(15) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 6)
(16) Grandparents comment on missing Chatham County toddler VIDEO (WJCL - Oct 6)
(17) Chatham County Police Chief gives update on missing toddler search VIDEO (WJCL - Oct 6)
(18) Reporter @SarahWinkelmann tweet including VIDEO (WTOC - Oct 6)
(19) Toddler Missing More Than 40 Hours, Neighbors Hear Arguments... (WSAV - Oct 6)
(20)
Chatham County Police enters 3rd day in search for missing toddler, Quinton Simon (Fox28 - Oct 7)
(21) Grandparents plead for answers as search for missing Chatham County toddler enters third day (WJCL - Oct 7)
(22) Timeline: What has happened since 20-month-old Quinton Simon went missing (WSAV - Oct 7)
(23) ChathamCounty PD FB post (Oct 8)
(24) ChathamCounty PD FB post (Oct 9)
(25) Search for Missing Toddler Quinton Simon enters fifth day, VIDEO (WJCL - Oct 9)
(26) ChathamCounty PD FB post (Oct 9)
(27) ChathamCounty PD FB psot (Oct 10)
(28) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 10)
(29) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 10
(30) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 10)
(31) ChathamCounty PD FB VIDEO (Oct 10)
(32) Search for missing Georgia toddler Quinton Simon continues VIDEO (NBC - Oct 10)
(33) Reporter @sheaschrader tweet thread (Oct 10)
(34) Chatham County Police Chief says search for missing child now also a criminal investigation (SavannahNow - Oct 10)
(35) ChathamCounty PD FB post (Oct 11)
(36) Gray Hughes Investigates VIDEO (Oct 10) - "Timothy Haslett - Debbie Collier - Chloe Campbell - Quinton Simon" (Quinton's segment begins at 1:00:00)
(37) 'My Baby's Not Dead': Heated Exchange Between grandmother, babysitter of missing toddler... (WSAV - Oct 11)
(38) ChathamCounty PD FB post (Oct 12)
(39) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 12)
(40) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 12)
(41) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 12)
(42) ChathamCounty PD FB post (Oct 12)
(43) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 12)
(44) Reporter @BrettWSAV tweet (Oct 13)
(45) Leilani Youngkin [Simon] FB post (Sep 25)
(46) Leilani Youngkin [Simon] FB post (Sep 18)
(47) Leilani Youngkin [Simon] FB post (Aug 9)
(48) Leilani Youngkin [Simon] FB post (Jul 30)
(49) Leilani Youngkin [Simon] FB post (Jun 6)
(50) Leilani Youngkin [Simon] FB post (Mar 16)
(51) Leilani Youngkin [Simon] FB post (Jan 8)

TIMELINE UPDATE

With MomLS now being named a suspect, I pulled in some pertinent FB posts she'd made to help fill in some timeline gaps, as well as updating with last night's announcement.

MY NOTES/OBSERVATIONS:
Regarding the strange timing of things last night: I suspect that CCPD privately informed Q's guardians (grandparents) last night about the evidence they had found, intending to release an update to media in the morning, but with the family leaking the info to the media, CCPD felt they had to confirm that publicly to avoid more social media chaos. Naming MomLS as "prime suspect" may have been a subtle warning/reminder to the family that LE is not yet done with their investigation -- that this case is far from over. MOO.
 
While we await the press conference, did anyone else notice LS wearing a wedding band when she left the home yesterday? Do we know if/when she and DY may have had a ceremony (assuming she married DY, of course)? There's a reason behind my curiosity.
 

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This is my first post..I'm here for a few years but I often hesitate to post because english is not my first language...
But today I need to write about my feelings. My dauther is born in January 21, same age as sweet Quinton. I'm absolutely devastated. How can a mother do this??? Not that it matters, but 20 months is such a wonderful age. The way they're talking, walking, loving to cuddle, laughing, imitating their bigger siblings....
Ugh, I just want to cry...

Rest in peace sweet boy...
English may not be your first language, but you spoke from a heartful of love, and love is a universal language. Your words express that love beautifully. Thank you for your wonderful post. Please keep posting. We understand you perfectly.
 
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Well I don't buy it, especially if she was the one to text the BS at 5:29. JMO If she awoke to find the baby dead, not remembering what happened, at least in my case if I really didn't know what had happened, I sure hope my first urge would not be to throw him in the trash. Not dissing your ideas LauraAnne, just that it makes me so angry. It's the going in and out of a block out, ie allegedly hurts the baby, plans (imo) to start the coverup, gets rid of the body, and then can't remember. But we still don't know what her story is yet, I guess.
I agree it does seem unlikely, considering SOMEONE hid the body pretty effectively. I'd believe it a little more if the body were lying in his crib, or in the backyard, etc.
 
I think it may be true that she doesn't remember. Whatever happened to that sweet baby, whatever she did or whoever did in her presence, she might have blocked out. <modsnip>

If she didn't remember, why would she dispose of his body and concoct a story?.
If she woke up and found him dead,with no obvious sign of injury, she would call and ambulance,no?. And likewise,if she woke and found him dead,obviously injured, would she not call police and look to the two other adults reported to be in the house at the time?. Look for someone to blame?.
If she woke up and found him missing,and the door open, why would she not be outside the home calling her child's name,knocking on doors, screaming for help?.
No, she knows what happened and she is clutching at straws, hoping she can convince someone other than her Mum that she blacked out. I don't think she can.
MOO.
 
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While we await the press conference, did anyone else notice LS wearing a wedding band when she left the home yesterday? Do we know if/when she and DY may have had a ceremony (assuming she married DY, of course)? There's a reason behind my curiosity.
My guess is that apparent wedding ring, and the use of the probably-by-now-ex-bf's last name in her social media, are both as big lies as everything she claims she can't remember about little Quinton's death. JMO
 
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Are convicts allowed to be foster parent? Are transfers of custody to a family member not overseen at all by the state? Does anyone do a home visit ever? Not assigning blame, just curious because I don’t think the these two boys belonged in that home AND no one in that home needs to be the custodial adult. we All knew this was coming but it is gut wrenching anyway. Praying they will find little QS AND that somehow AMERICA will fix its systems that are supposed to be in place to help families In situations where the kids need cared for by others.

Quinton Simon's grandma insists he is 'still alive'
Yes. An EX convict can. It varies by state but most stipulate if they haven't been convicted of felony child abuse, neglect or any other felony which represents an unbroken pattern of behavior that could endanger a child. With many types of felony conviction - If they have served their time then demonstrated they have reformed and show no relapse into criminality for however may years thereafter - An individual is eligible for a risk assessment screening (<--not sure if this is the right terminology). There are people in this world who have turned their lives around and I personally don't believe they should be excluded from the chance to be a positive role model for a child who needs one.
 
Are convicts allowed to be foster parent? Are transfers of custody to a family member not overseen at all by the state? Does anyone do a home visit ever? Not assigning blame, just curious because I don’t think the these two boys belonged in that home AND no one in that home needs to be the custodial adult. we All knew this was coming but it is gut wrenching anyway. Praying they will find little QS AND that somehow AMERICA will fix its systems that are supposed to be in place to help families In situations where the kids need cared for by others.

Quinton Simon's grandma insists he is 'still alive'

So far everything we've had to read indicates that this grandparent was not a foster parent, she was a grandparent with custody.

If a prospective foster parent has a criminal record, it's evaluated on a case-by-case basis. Sure, someone who had a DUI back in 1995 and who subsequently completed alcohol/drug treatment and has lived without further criminal activity since then could very well be certified as a foster parent if they meet the other criteria. Someone who was released from jail in 2021 for armed robbery and rape will most likely not be approved. There is no broad yes/no answer.

Transfers of custody are not necessarily overseen by the local district. People can transfer custody to other people for a variety of non-nefarious reasons (I had custody of my niece for a year so she could attend school in a specific district) without any need for CPS/DCFS involvement. If the transfer of custody happened as a result of a CPS investigation, then yes, that arrangement would be overseen by the local district and there would most likely be court-ordered stipulations that required the parent(s) to engage in whatever services are recommended for reunification to occur.

Home visits get done (I'm assuming you mean by CPS/DCFS) if merited -- if no one took the time to report suspected abuse or it's a situation where there is no abuse, then there is no reason for these agencies to be in that family's life. There has to be a reason that initiates CPS involvement in a person's life.

It's popular to blame CPS for people abusing their children, but that's because it's really uncomfortable to hold ourselves responsible for creating a world where everyone turns a blind eye because they are so focused on themselves and whatever fad or cause is being promoted at the moment. It's gotten so easy for people to see something or hear something and ignore it, then tsk-tsk that CPS didn't do anything about it (and if we put the focus on CPS, then no one will notice that we also stood by and did nothing...) We've created an environment where it's okay to live in any way that we choose, because personal freedom, you know, yet people seem to expect that CPS and LE are omniscient and should be there to catch these people before catastrophe erupts. That's not real life, and it's never going to work that way.
 
Haven't thought this completely through yet, but the only scenario I can think of where events have played out like they have and LE hasn't made an arrest of its purported 'Suspect Number 1", is if 'Suspect Number 1' is actually not 'Suspect Number 1' and was announced by LE only to pressure her into talking about what really happened and who did it. Because if 'Suspect Number 1' hadn't left the house until yesterday (according to reports and pictures), then it is unlikely she has been formally interrogated and is probably refusing altogether. So she likely hasn't made any admissions or delivered to them directly anything that they could use.

So, IMO either someone sold her out or they are applying pressure for her to talk. If someone sold her out, and the evidence lined up with said selling out, she would be in custody. <modsnip>

JMO.
I believe LS and DY were both interrogated for long hours in the early days. I think yesterday was just the first time she's left the house on her own.
 
The mom's behavior appears to be that of a drug addict. She sleeps late, doesn't take care of her kids and so forth. Grandma's description that her daughter is usually good but sometimes makes bad choices suggests that LS may have long struggled with drug addiction. If high at the time, she could easily have hurt the child - physical violence or accidental overdose. On the other hand, if that were the case, she would likely need help with the cover-up. It's possible the death could have occurred the night before and she sobered up the next morning and tried to create an alibi, but that would require either the BF lying about seeing Q at 9 AM, or some complex ruse that tricked the boyfriend.

Unfortunately, it would be very easy to put a small child in a black plastic bag and put it in a trash container and the sanitation workers would never see anything out of the ordinary.
 
While we await the press conference, did anyone else notice LS wearing a wedding band when she left the home yesterday? Do we know if/when she and DY may have had a ceremony (assuming she married DY, of course)? There's a reason behind my curiosity.
Someone posted this yesterday, mentioning that in regards to someone not having to testify against their spouse, it doesn’t include acts against minors IIRC. I’m summing that up terribly, sorry, I don’t remember all of the legal terms.

Are marriage licenses public info and available online? Hmmmm
 
Yes. An EX convict can. It varies by state but most stipulate if they haven't been convicted of felony child abuse, neglect or any other felony which represents an unbroken pattern of behavior that could endanger a child. With many types of felony conviction - If they have served their time then demonstrated they have reformed and show no relapse into criminality for however may years thereafter - An individual is eligible for a risk assessment screening (<--not sure if this is the right terminology). There are people in this world who have turned their lives around and I personally don't believe they should be excluded from the chance to be a positive role model for a child who needs one.
well stated. thanks.
 
Not buying this selective amnesia for one second. She cancelled the BS and allegedly managed to get him to the landfill without remembering? Erm nope.
I’m thinking more like she got him to the garbage can before trash was picked up that morning.
Hence waiting until after 9 am to call 911.
JMO of course.
 
Haven't thought this completely through yet, but the only scenario I can think of where events have played out like they have and LE hasn't made an arrest of its purported 'Suspect Number 1", is if 'Suspect Number 1' is actually not 'Suspect Number 1' and was announced by LE only to pressure her into talking about what really happened and who did it. Because if 'Suspect Number 1' hadn't left the house until yesterday (according to reports and pictures), then it is unlikely she has been formally interrogated and is probably refusing altogether. So she likely hasn't made any admissions or delivered to them directly anything that they could use.

So, IMO either someone sold her out or they are applying pressure for her to talk. If someone sold her out, and the evidence lined up with said selling out, she would be in custody. <modsnip>

JMO.
I will be surprised if "Suspect Number 1" has not have been arrested and charged with murder, by the time of today's 1pm pressor. She and her bf were interrogated for several hours a few days ago, and I am sure she has been interrogated again, perhaps for several hours yesterday or last night. I'm guessing he has been cleared, and LE has plenty of evidence to help her remember what she had done. JMO
 
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In less than 12 hours Quinton went from the caring arms of his babysitter to a landfill. Hopefully Leilani will have many years in a prison cell to remember what she did the night she murdered him.

IMO the need to hide Quinton’s body instead of calling 911 means there’s forensic evidence that his death wasn’t an accident. MOO

Poor sweet little guy, at the mercy of a monster.
 
I've popped in and out of this thread but resisted to get too involved as I have seen this movie before. Many times.

I have one question.

If Grandma had custody, why was Quinton in the care of his mother at all? Why was he in that home?

Thanks.
 
I cant get past the delay in reporting him til the DM (sitter) prompted that call by showing up and offering to help look. That was after 9am. I can't help think that delay was meant to not report him until garbage pickup on the block had been completed. I am very interested int eh cell data obtained on both LS and DY movements in the 24 hours before Q was reported missing.
 
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