UPDATE!!! We have found Phoebe, alive and safe! I appreciate you all so much!
This past Wednesday was 9 weeks since she disappeared. We went from Monday, being convinced that her estranged husband had killed her (I have apologized to him for our suspicions!), to Wednesday, seeing her on police body cam footage at the OD death of some guy, telling cops she is homeless, no one hovering over her to keep her from talking or asking for help, to Thursday, yesterday, finding out she had been arrested on Wednesday for possession of meth and cocaine. It's a matter of public record, thought I'd spare you the web search. Lol. She was supposed to have a hearing today but it got moved to the 24th. We haven't spoken to her or seen her yet, but we are so thankful to know she is alive!
These past 9 weeks have been so horrible. Each day harder to get through than the day before. That's why I haven't been here lately. We had no more clues to add and we were just too broken and depressed. Our first piece of concrete evidence was the body cam footage, which we just received Wednesday. Then he next day, we have the actual Phoebe. We don't know if she wants help or not at this point. I pray that she does. We will be there to help her if that's what she wants, but if she wants to run the streets we will just have to pray for her safety and love her from afar.
Thanks again for all of your care, concern, help, and tips.
We know we are so lucky to have this (so far) happy ending. So many families never get an answer, or they find out their loved one is no longer alive. We have a second chance and intend to make the best of it!