Completely agree. I don’t think most people realize that being inpatient and then being enrolled in a five day week outpatient program is not very common and there had to have been a considerable safety concerns for insurance to approve that.In a way, it almost makes this more tragic in my mind than the AY case. She was receiving intense therapy/intervention, more than I’ve ever heard of anyone getting in the post partum period. And yet it still wasn’t enough.
For those out there making such judgmental comments about her husband leaving her with the kids, I have to wonder… when was he supposed to sleep? If she wasn’t safe for 25 minutes with the kids alone, it wasn’t safe for him to sleep ever bc she could easily wake in the middle of the night and kill their children and herself.
Obviously hindsight is 20/20, but she needed 24/7 supervision. That’s not something that’s going to happen here in the US for any length of time if you’re counting on insurance to pay for it. My impression is she received inpatient treatment for quite some time (in the insurance world, a week inpatient for psych issues is a long time, and IMO she was inpatient significantly longer than a week). Then to be involved in a 5 day a week intensive outpatient day program tells me that she was in very bad shape mentally. Ordinary postpartum depression, even when severe, isn’t typically treated this way.
My heart breaks for all of them.
She was doing everything she was supposed to.