aaaaand I'm back.
During my marathon catch up of this thread, I took several screen shots to share with my husband. I always share my favorite cases with him, whether he wants it or not. And he mentioned that the posts by the bf remind him of one of his family members. We laughed about that, because this family member is insufferable, but it also gave me pause... for years, I have quietly thought to myself that if this family member ended up killing someone, that I wouldn't be surprised.
(side note: as far as I am aware he has NOT hurt anyone. He does not display outward violence that I have seen.)
The bf in this case and this certain family member in my life display many of the same qualities, including obvious narcissism, short temper and the inability to be wrong. This family member gets along fine in life, but has difficulty holding a job or relationship for very long (and i mean a year or two in this case) but rambles on about how he is always right and everyone else is crazy. He can never even fathom the cause for the deterioration of every one of his relationships could actually be him. So what I am saying is, that he seems pretty normal until you disagree with him, and then all the facts get distorted and he yells and says mean, nasty things... and I consider him capable of a crime like this. In turn, I consider Wes capable of a crime like this, despite all his claims of a normal, happy life.
One thing I do want to mention that I haven't seen in this thread, is that I don't think he is lying about still being in contact with Ally, still seeing her regularly and sharing loving texts. Years ago, I had a long term relationship end, but we continued to see each other. We met up, spent the night together, probably said "I love you's" but in NO way were we getting back together. Break ups are hard, we were both single, and we still had feelings for each other. I probably would have even gone to a family function with him. But we both moved on and that is that. Wes has a difficult time accepting the truth, but it IS possible that what he says about her staying the night is true, but that its also true that they were broken up.