kellync
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Well, i struggle with this myself. I think that maybe dads G/f wanted her to go with Mom. Believe it or not, we're in the south and SOME people are funny about mixed race children. The Dad worked out of town, so others took care of her the majority if the time, I assume...stranger things have happened..JMOWhy would her father send her there?
I get the princess feeling too which complete befuddles me when I think about sending her to live with these people. Not increase visits, not see how mom does with her a day at a time, see a therapist? From my very limited view it appears that mom had little to no interest in the girl, her boyfriend of two years hadn't met her until three weeks ago when she was suddenly living there?
Nothing that indicates mom was asking for custody, asking for increased visitation, no parenting plan she was working to earn her child back..... and the princess is dropped off in a sewage leaking trailer with a mom who doesn't want her and is surrounded by felons? What motivates that? Not getting to know mom, that dog don't hunt. That can be accomplished in a much safer manner.
Was he talking to her? Seeing her on the weekends? Did she have a chance to tell him that it is filthy and smelly, that her clothes have been given away or sold- but that they are gone?
I am NOT blaming him, just trying desperately to figure out this huge piece of the puzzle that feels like two worlds colliding with each other.....