I should have clarified...
Okay... so say the guy is home alone with your child when your child is brutally raped.
POLICE say the man you love did it, they arrest him.
There is a restraining order taken out on the man to keep him away from you.
Either you believe the charges, or just don't want to appear to be supporting this man. (I don't know which it is.)
You get used to being a single mother for 3 months... while this man faces charges of raping your daughter.
Either you accept that he did it, or once again just go along with LE for the sake of your children.
Then... he is cleared. Nevermind... the man you love didn't rape your child, our mistake!
So... do you just welcome him back into your life? If you believed the charges against him?
If your spouse believed you raped a 4 year old, then you were cleared would you go back to them?
This isn't as simple as "he's cleared, everything back to normal!" There are major issues here.
Even if they get back together... someone will believe he did it with a friend. Someone will have not heard he was cleared.
People have been known to call CPS repeatedly... harass the family... tell the kids what Daddy was accused of... etc.
This all could have been avoided by simply testing the DNA faster. This man's reputation is completely destroyed now. :twocents: