IMHO the UK Royals are in no way as on show as other monarchies, just look at the Swedes, they have their Christenings broadcast on TV or the Danish have their full wedding receptions on TV.
I think part of the problem is isolation. When you think about Harry, he has grown up essentially in communities his whole life, when you think of Kensington Palace, Eton, the Army etc, there always lots of people around and also just being in London, we know he had a lot of close friends. He seemed to drop them and has moved to a place without neighbours essentially. I think Harry no longer has anyone to keep his feet on the ground and for want of a better phrase make fun of him, I have no doubt that new friends like Ellen are treating him with incredible deference.
I don't agree with some of this article but this paragraph stood out to me:
"This is the return of the pre-1960s monarchy. Of a monarchy that presumed it could influence what the newspapers were allowed to publish. Of a monarchy so distant from everyday life and so cut off from the principles of freedom and open debate that it believes it can lecture the press – the ‘low press’ in particular – about their behaviour and their output. Behind the velvet glove of the younger PC royals there lurks the iron fist of that old-world monarchism that presumed the right to live free of the barbs and insults of the mob. Harry and Meghan might use the PC language of victimhood to assert their monarchical privilege – describing themselves as victims of bullying and racism – but the impact is the same as when earlier royals asserted their God-given right never to be criticised by the lower orders: people are shamed for daring to ridicule the royals.
Sorry, no. The age of deference is over."
Harry and Meghan’s war on press freedom