.05pm: Gerard Baden-Clay said he did not regard himself as in a relationship with Ms McHugh by April 19, 2012.
“We hadn’t seen each other for a number of weeks at my urging because I was trying to assist her to end any idea she had that there was some sort of relationship with me or future with me,” he said.
“I wanted her to be able to be the one to control the … to tell me where to go, basically.”
Mr Fuller: “Who was more important to you Mr Baden-Clay, your wife or Ms McHugh?”
Baden-Clay: “Allison, absolutely, Allison.”
He agreed he told counsellor Carmel Ritchie from the outset that his wife did not trust him.
Baden-Clay said he told Ms Ritchie he was concerned about his wife “bringing up repeatedly painful things from the past”.
“I felt that for Allison it was unhelpful for her to constantly revisit those things that were painful for her,” he said.
He said Ms Ritchie convinced him that it would be helpful, because she gave a structure to the process.
He said he did not agree to the counselling session just to placate his wife.
“I wasn’t having an affair with Carmel Ritchie and I wasn’t having an affair with my wife,” he said.
Baden-Clay agreed he met Ms McHugh at a coffee shop and told her it was “too hard” to keep going as they were.
He said Ms McHugh pressed him to give a date for when he would leave the marriage.
Baden-Clay agreed he told her he would be out of his marriage by July 1, 2012.
Mr Fuller asked Baden-Clay whether Ms McHugh gave him an “out” that day.
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