I would like to see a compiled list of Ramsey quotes, & the contexts in which they were said, & to whom. Does anybody know if there is such a list? The comment about douching Jon Benet, blows my mind, & this religious explanation, does the same. From a lot of things I've read, it seems that the Ramseys spent a lot of time trying to minimize JB's murder, by talking about the BIG picture-God, & the real meaning of life, etc...& I find that very interesting, because it doesn't seem as if they went through an angry or bitter stage. & besides pointing fingers, it doesn't seem that they ever went through a blaming stage. I know when a lot of parents lose a child, they blame each other or themselves. (in an abstract way..if you had been a better parent, you would've been paying closer attention), even though it's obvious that they aren't to blame. & religious people will often be angry @ God for letting it happen & will lose their faith. That's normal.