VespaElf--I'm appalled by the rudeness of the new but now vanished poster, but I did want to answer your very important question. Lying and vindictiveness are very real disorders of childhood. They fall under Conduct Disorder in the DSM-IV for children. After the age of 18, they morph into Anti-social Personality Disorder. They are typically under the umbrella of Severe Emotional Disturbance in the educational arena.
To play devil's advocate for a moment, it is not unheard of for children to engage in "crazy" lying nor to be vindictive (also a component of Oppositional Defiant Disorder). If this little boy is diagnosed with either of these disorders, it is highly possible that he has a history of lying. This type of lying is easily sorted out, though, by professionals who work with these kids.
The 4 yr old girl says yes to anything you ask. including "Did you build the great wall?"
First off I want to say thanks to Missizzy for hitting it right on the nail here. The child has both Bi-polar and ODD which in most cases turns into CD as the grow up. Second I love how my post got deleted but everyone who call the mother all kinds of evil things is still up. Third I didn't vanish, its been less then 24 hours since that post. Just because I have a life and don't sit here to wait for each of your posts doesn't mean I'm not around. Forth, I never called lying and vindictiveness disorders I said "disorders whose symptoms include".
And to answer some of the questions I saw about the time line here you go.
First, the child was grounded from boy scouts for getting suspended from school for the 5th week in a row. His first day back he made the outcry. Cps did investigate BTW. Then he scratched his own neck on the way to school and claimed the mother had done it. She was arrested and the kids taken into custody. The stepfather wasn't arrested until it was mentioned in court about him being a scout master which pissed off the children's lawyer for some reason. I'm 98% sure that's the only reason he was arrested. There fishing for more "people" to come forward because there so called concrete evidence doesn't exist, and last but not least. The 4 yr old girl says yes to anything you ask. including "Did you build the great wall?" The mention about corercen makes a lot of sense when you take into all the facts. Which is what I was saying too do in the first place. Everyone here jumped on the mom calling her all kinds of evil things and me I stand up for her.
She didn't just slap him she left bruises. What is wrong with her? I hope he is never in her custody again. All children deserve to be believed. I have dealt with the situation in my life and lost a 10+ year friendship because I believed my child. I have heard of a situation where a child did lie, or at least the court aquitted a man who was accused of sexually abusing a teen ager. In this case the girl had emotional problems and was resentful of her mom's new boyfriend. He was in jail for nearly a year until the trial and then released. Even then I was appaled that the mother didn't defend her child and choose to stick by her boyfriend. I would always take my childs side and err on the side of caution. I would rather be wrong and believe the child then be wrong and not believe the child.
There is your answer. Right in my post.
oh and I forgot to mention the reason this child was suspended so many times...in the beginning of the school year mind you...was for these reasons; kicking a teacher, scratching a teacher, over turning his desk, throwing things across the room...etc
You are correct, kbl, it would be rare for a four year old to disclose sexual abuse without the abuse occurring. LE are video-taped while they are interviewing the child so as to prove to the defense that the children were not asked leading questions. Most likely they would have asked very open-ended questions about the child's life and allowed her to simply tell what happened. They do not just sit a kid down and say, "Did you Dad touch your privates?"
They start out by making the child comfortable--talking about favorite toys and foods and getting to know the child. Some kids get into the treatment rooms and blurt out their secrets but others need a little time. LE might ask if anything scary or upsetting has happened at home or school lately. A four year old (we're talking barely past toddlerhood, here) would not just pop off with "Daddy hurt my bottom", unless it was a huge event in the child's life. No way.
I find all this difficult to understand. We're trying to apply "normal" kid behavior to kids who may or may not be "normal". We have all been around a lot of kids, but without knowing these kids, it is impossible for anyone to know what happend for sure.
We may not know what happened for sure, however, Hartman was arrested after the children disclosed "graphic details" per the video & the abuse wasn't a single occurrence (lasted for years)...the little girl said "no" but Harman didn't stop.
The mom was arrested for physically abusing the little boy as well....she wouldn't be the first 'mom' to say the kids weren't telling the truth & "ruining her life"....ask mikeysmommom....she's posted she's going the thru same situation w/ her g-kids right now....she was even told those same words by the kids mother -- ruining her life. ugh.
It sounds to me as tho an investigation by LE was done before both were arrested.
I have no problem believing the kids & I hope the 'mom' & step-dad never get to be near them again.