ColourPurple
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In the BBC interview DG said he had a bad feeling about SH from the start but that he grew to accept her and then to love her like a daughter.DG's words make me so sad. If you had a bad feeling about SH from the start, why have her as your wife's carer? Why have her in your home so often?
If he knew that Nathan wanted Becky to be scared of him, why didn't he do something about it? Why give him free access to your house, especially when Becky was there? He says that Nathan's jealousy got worse towards Becky, but did anyone do anything?
If he thought Nathan was looking at young girls inappropriately, why not put more barriers between him and your young daughter? He had some control over him - the control not to have him in the house, or go on holiday with him.
I don't want to be too hard on the family as they have suffered so much, but I can see what Becky's mum meant now. If only Becky had moved in with her.
Interestingly AG said the same as NM grandmother, that (despite being quiet) SH always got what she wanted/got her own way.
I don't think anybody would link NM jumping out to scare Becky with anything sinister. It sounds like the kind of thing my male cousins would do to me when I was younger, making me jump, riding their bikes at me then stopping at the last minute, catching big spiders and throwing them on me. Typical annoying boy stuff.