I don't think anyone here, regardless of what they think the situation may be, is victim-blaming (unless I missed a post or post(s) got deleted)
Most were wondering WHY there was no Amber Alert from the moment LE realized she was with Lynch.
She's a minor (a young minor at that, only in 8th or 9th grade) and is in the company of a 30 year old, who at least, is ridiculously irresponsible and doesn't have his head on right, and at worst, a child molester and dangerous person, said to possibly be armed and suicidal)
I think everyone is just trying to figure out what the situation is since so véry few details and information have been shared by LE.
One also has to wonder why, in a press conference where the point seemed to be NOT to repeat the car make/model plate etc but rather to have family members speak and ask her just to call so they know she's safe, to come home, etc. In what kidnapping cases do we see that normally? As if kidnapping victims have the choice of the ability to call the shots/contact home or go home if they choose? So why were they appealing to her vs the perp?
Regardless of the situation, everyone knows she's a minor....she can't legally agree to anything. And he's a perv any way you slice it because who goes "camping" or keeps company with someone else's minor child without the parents permission? Scumbags. Scumbags do.