RC: she's not someone to grab a gun and rob a bank
-as a mother, she's not negligent
-we never see what happens behind closed doors of course
-she care about her appearance (vanity-in particular)
-H when she was younger-she had a lot to say
-we were not around much when she met Shawn
-at Xmas, her (BJD) demeanor was different ("overly warm")