Reading a few pages back about people speculating about the sleep over. My older son loves sleeping over at his grandparents house, when he's there he never wants to leave. So if NO was asking to stay JO like me probably would have said yes, remember his grandparents are leaving so he's going to miss them very much. I also would probably have kept my younger son with me, at that age they are very attached to their parents, and the only time I ever leave him with anyone is if my husband and I are going somewhere kids aren't allowed (wedding, concert, those kinds of things). I really feel for JO, she will have to live with that decision to leave NO there, she thought she was giving her son some wonderful last minute time with his grandparents and it turned into much more, that just breaks my heart.