I've seen this alluded to alot - what do people think mom should/could have done to guarantee that Kayleah end that relationship. Remember she has NO car and she has older children who need to socialize. Do you think mom had the kids over to her house rather than have them walking the streets? Short of putting a harness on Kayleah, I'm not sure what options were available. moo
The reason I thought that was because of the videos. The kind of behavior she was condoning. Yes, her circumstances were tough. Yes, her life was hard. But you CAN lock down a 12 year old. You don't let them out. If they sneak out, you take away their stuff, their allowance, etc. Tough love, so to speak. My parent were strict and at 12, there was no way I would have gotten away with anything.
No car? Walk with your daughter. Take the bus with her. It isn't safe to let her walk in a busy city at night.
I think AW could have been that kind of parent because 1. She wanted to be cool 2. She didn't know better (ie what was modeled during her own up bringing) 3. It was too hard to deal with.
IMO, the video showed a mom who allowed inappropriate behavior between teenagers in her home and then posted it on the internet. As a parent I would be livid to see another parent allowing that behavior if I was expecting her to supervise a group of kids. And then to post it on top of that-yeah, I'd be furious.
I went to a party once where the mom was like AW, letting the kids get away with things that were not OK. Parenting is the hardest thing I have ever done, but you have to keep your kids safe, even if they don't like you for it.
MOO-if I said anything too harsh, please feel free to delete/edit.