My son has full custody of the children, but the NARC continues to haunt us. She didn't want the children & gave them up willingly about 2 years ago.
The children refuse to visit with her, so she has now started another court proceeding, trying to get visitation.
The judge ordered a psychological eval on her & so far, the PHD doing the eval, sees what she is & will likely be denied any visitation at all.
We do not see her or talk to her. She is CRAZY and like most narcissists, blames my son for everything & also wants revenge on him.
She's getting it, he is financially ruined with all the legal fees.
This makes her HAPPY even though all his financial problems, affect the children & limit what they can do (activities) and any other need they may have.
We're hoping (finally) that the courts decision will finally STOP her, but who knows.
Narcissists will not be denied what they want & right now she will not accept that the kids absolutely HATE her. She is determined to FORCE them to see her (not going to happen) but in her mind, she is not the problem.
IF the court decides she cannot see them, we plan to move to another state to get away from her. Sad, isn't it, but that is what we have decided is our only course of action, since she is relentless.
She's also an alcohlic, like many narcissists, they have addictive personalities & turn to alcohol & drugs.
They are very dangerous, so be careful if either of these people are still in your life in any way. They are also stalkers, but seems you found that out already.
Seperating from them can be dangerous, so watch your back.