Hi M86,
Private Investigations can be frustrating for sure. I do not wish to go in to detail about my own Sister;s case at this time for obvious reasons; however you could talk to the SD police department yourself and ask them, I am sure they would be helpful in helping you understand the differences between public and private investigations, and the many reasons that a case becomes private, I think that would be beneficial for you.
Keep in mind that my Sister's disappearance itself, was never hidden from the media so that any whom had information about her case could step forward and tell the investigators what they know. It is just the details that were/are hidden.
As far as Catherine seeking a new life, you being private yourself should understand that if that was the case, it would be kept hidden from the public eye, even if for no reason other than, she did not want her personal life to be broadcasted on the internet, and not because of any particular reason. Her personal life is personal as far as I am concerned, as I myself am very private, so much so, that only a few in Hot Springs even knew that I was her Sister, so I have chosen to decline my thoughts on this, hopefully you can understand.
As far as prying goes, I am not offended by any prying, curiosity is a natural human condition, go ahead and ask all that you want, I just may not wish to share some things and hopefully you can understand why.
I know it is hard at first glance to relate to the hidden aspect of this case, but if you try to view it from a broader perspective, things might make more sense in the long run.
Some friends and family, and others that just care in general may not be handling the lack of knowing information very well either, but in time we will know more, rest assured the case is moving forward, and our family is right on top of it, Catherine has not been forgotten by any means, I for one, am being very tenacious and relentless in my pursuit for her cause, I am only one year younger than her, she is my best friend and I love her dearly.
take care,
slyon
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