ITA. I'm not a professional, but I would classify many of her actions as not only assertive, but aggressive. Even in her own testimony, almost every time there was a visit, it was JA going to Travis, NOT the other way around.
It seems obvious to me that this poor pitiful me act is just that - an act. Even watching her interviews before and after she was arrested, she never once comes off as not assertive, ever! She definintely projects confidence and sometimes downright arrogance and aggressiveness.
Even when JM confronted her on the stand, she had no problem calling him out when she believed that he was treating her in a way she had an issue with. And I'm sure she was the same way with Travis. I have no doubt she was always the aggressor in their relationship.