I'm behind people...I'm sorry, I had a busy day today!
But something keeps coming to my mind... Wondering... were there no neighbors, or anyone at all, in Kelsey's life in CO. to check in from time to time?
Once, as a 20 something year old, I had a odd encounter with a new neighbor, a week after she moved in to our apartment building, she knocked on my door one afternoon, and stood there, on my doorstep, with garish make-up on, ( think Mimi from "The Drew Carry Show"), and she said she had a job interview to go to, and asked me if I would watch her seven month old son.
She was right next door, so I followed her over and the child was asleep in his crib. I agreed, even through I would never have dreamed of placing my own child in the care of a stranger. But I thought, here's struggling young mom, who is asking for help. I'll help right now.
I mean...Sometimes we can't be everything someone needs, we can't shoulder peoples burdens for the Long Haul. But I believe we should do what we feel capable of if asked...
When he woke up, I noticed he hadn't been changed in a while, his skin was very pale and dry, flaky. He was so light for his age! And there wasn't all the necessary items needed to care for him in the apartment.
But I mostly recall, his trembling little smile, when I picked him up and held him.
All he really wanted was someone to care for him a little bit. Even just a smidge, for a short while. There was such hope in that little smile!
She lost her son to Cps. a few weeks later. (I had hoped to get to know her, and him a little better, but their problems were more advanced than I'd realized I guess).
Where were the caring people in Kelsey's life in CO? Were there really none?
Did she have no one, even a relatively "new" person, to whom to turn? Only Pf?
If there is any "Take Away" from this case... I would think it would be to please, look out for others in your immediate sphere of influence! If you feel like something's "off", if you hear, see or sense something, then DO something!
Don't give the "Benefit of the doubt", or wait and see what happens! The worst that can happen if your wrong, is that you were wrong! The worst that can happen if we do NOTHING is...This Case.