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Thank you but, very respectfully, I'm not sorry. There were great times and horrific times. I affirm to my kids that it's OK to remember and cherish the good they remember. Just moving on...and trying hard to prevent continued victimization. (I reject pity - can't afford to let my guard down) hope you understand.
From the family stories I learned of my ex's early childhood years, I believe they are born that way. Unfortunately, his parents always tried to explain away his deviant behaviours as just cute childhood antics until they finally admitted they were negatively impacted. They were angry with him BUT, they cherished their reputation, their standing in society much more, and paid whatever it took to cover up for him even now into his 50's still ::rollseyes:: I can see though, how parents probably try all avenues of discipline to try to reach their child, before even considering consulting with a professional. The cost can be prohibitive and society in general is not very tolerant nor supportive. I know I would never give up trying were it my child but I'm also guilty of holding my children accountable for their actions since their very early years. They blossomed beautifully in case you're wondering :rockon:
I never had interest in psychology and later wished I had! I was so was completely at a loss as to how to "help" him, and I did try
The universe has a way of giving you what you need when you need it. Hare was such a gift for me
I believe that any human being can get caught by a psychopath as they present themselves as normal, honest and sincere human beings. They twist facts so much that you loose track of the actual purpose or issue or whatever you're discussing, living. They charm the pants off you and the people around you. Then subtly strike but you don't notice until it's too late.
Travis was such a victim, as were his family, friends, and now all the Texas taxpayers and all of us who follow this trial to justice.
Sorry I'm not very articulate...much could be said more concisely. I'm just too exhausted at the end of the day and usually only read or briefly reply.
Thanks for reading this far :blushing:
Thank you but, very respectfully, I'm not sorry. There were great times and horrific times. I affirm to my kids that it's OK to remember and cherish the good they remember. Just moving on...and trying hard to prevent continued victimization. (I reject pity - can't afford to let my guard down) hope you understand.
From the family stories I learned of my ex's early childhood years, I believe they are born that way. Unfortunately, his parents always tried to explain away his deviant behaviours as just cute childhood antics until they finally admitted they were negatively impacted. They were angry with him BUT, they cherished their reputation, their standing in society much more, and paid whatever it took to cover up for him even now into his 50's still ::rollseyes:: I can see though, how parents probably try all avenues of discipline to try to reach their child, before even considering consulting with a professional. The cost can be prohibitive and society in general is not very tolerant nor supportive. I know I would never give up trying were it my child but I'm also guilty of holding my children accountable for their actions since their very early years. They blossomed beautifully in case you're wondering :rockon:
I never had interest in psychology and later wished I had! I was so was completely at a loss as to how to "help" him, and I did try
The universe has a way of giving you what you need when you need it. Hare was such a gift for me
I believe that any human being can get caught by a psychopath as they present themselves as normal, honest and sincere human beings. They twist facts so much that you loose track of the actual purpose or issue or whatever you're discussing, living. They charm the pants off you and the people around you. Then subtly strike but you don't notice until it's too late.
Travis was such a victim, as were his family, friends, and now all the Texas taxpayers and all of us who follow this trial to justice.
Sorry I'm not very articulate...much could be said more concisely. I'm just too exhausted at the end of the day and usually only read or briefly reply.
Thanks for reading this far :blushing:
Hugs banzai (((((((banzai))))))). I don't talk about it too much here, but I am raising a child who I believe is bi-polar and has several characteristics of BPD (yes, I've had assessments done, and gone through ENDLESS doctors). It's very hard to have someone like that in your life. In my experience, it doesn't matter what you try to do for them they only withdraw more and get angrier. And you're right about mental health being "cost prohibitive". Only the rich can afford a good pyschiatrist. He's 19 now, so my options are becoming a lot more limited.
I'm glad you were able to get away and get safe. Unfortunately it's not really possible to get away when it's your child. There is no such thing as "divorce" for a mother.
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How people should weigh themselves:
