Food for thought... Some may see this, some may not... but food for thought anyway:
In your own neighborhood, for whatever your own reasons, you and your husband or boyfriend see somebody outside who seems suspicious...
How many of your husbands/boyfriends would go outside to investigate, and possibly bring something with them (golf club, bat, etc). Just curious.
Going to investigate someone or something that YOU deem suspicious is not the craziest concept in the world. I've heard noises before and have grabbed a coat hanger to go investigate. Probably smarter to stay locked in my bedroom. But I still went to look because I wanted to know what was up.
Food for thought.
IMO