Cubby
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You are receiving feedback whether or not it is directly from Mr. Kyle. It is completely unrealistic to assume that he will sign on and be available to anyone simply because you want him to be. He is a man who has suffered tremendous trauma and he is in the unenviable position of having to both re-learn his life and skill sets as well as teach himself skills he may never have had before. I have worked on the net for years and I have not attempted MySpace.
What disturbs me about this message is the underlying statement that in order to receive your help he needs to reveal himself to you in a way that will satisfy you. He is a crime victim. His perps are still out there. Beyond that, you have no information regarding the circumstances under which he uses a computer and it's availability to him or what attempts he makes to earn money within the confines of the law.
I bolded some things-Dateline and a number of crime shows have been sent his story. The Dr Phil Show signs off most guests IMMEDIATELY following the airing of the show. The only reason they kept the board and 800 number going for a month was because of the number of hits....it is all about numbers, not warm and fuzzies in the talk show game. The PI is not obligated to share information with WS members, dreamweaver. We are not LE-we are sleuthers only. What we have that the PI does not have is hundreds and thousands of arm chair detectives who have some time to kill and a willingness to give it. We can churn up leads and after we have vetted them, we can pass them along.
We are in Mr. Kyle's life by invitation only-we take the information given as far as we can. The more we earn his trust and gratitude, the easier it will be to convince him that he can post here himself. He is an unidentified individual who happens to be alive. He is a one off in many ways-he cannot be compelled to take any steps that he maybe unwilling or unable to take at this time-remember please that we are here as support for him just like all of the crime victims we discuss on this board. JMO.
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I know much of what you said has been posted throughout this forum already believe. It's a lot to read and catch up on... and I understand not everyone has the time to read every post..... Thanks for stating this so elequently again.
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