I never said AS saw any of this coming. I don't think he did either. However, once they were labeled fugitives, his comments did not sound to me as stunned or shocked. As you pointed out, things "coalesced" for him. Then that would make sense as to why his responses sounded that way. I do not believe AS thought Bryer would go out and kill anyone. I feel for AS in all of this disaster .... and even though he didn't get to spend a great deal of time with his son, I believe he knew him quite well. JMO
Agreed.
I don't think any of AS gifts to Bryer were weird. I think they were sincere and heartfelt and likely, yes, trying to make up for lost time. Given he probably didn't have all that much money to spend, he sure did make a huge effort. I questioned whether Bryer could have been taking advantage of his father, perhaps without even being totally conscious of it. But who really knows, totally JMO.
I thought Bryer may have been taking advantage at first, and kind of exploiting his dad's guilt. But after reading that he and his dad talked almost every day, I doubt it. Because to me that actually sounds like a very frequent rate of communication for any 18-year-old and parent they don't live with, and even more so given the history. If the objective was exploitation, he probably would have talked to his dad much more infrequently, only talked to him when he wanted something, etc. I think they actually were very close, and that Bryer probably realized his dad didn't really have anyone else and therefore kept an eye on him.
In fact I think it's even possible that Bryer was a lot more open with his dad compared to the rest of his family, with whatever was going on in his head, and that's why his dad made all of those comments about "he wants his pain to end" and all that. He certainly was open about the Nazi stuff until his dad shut that down.
Now that being said, Bryer probably didn't mind getting expensive gifts, and probably didn't question too much how his dad saved up the money for them.
And given how close they apparently were, that makes it even weirder that Bryer didn't text him until the last minute and gave him inaccurate information about where they were going (and his dad assumed they were visiting Bryer's cousins in a city in Alberta, which would be a less concerning trip for a parent than going to the middle of nowhere by themselves). I think it's entirely possible that Bryer did that to avoid questioning, because he knew his dad would figure out that something was wrong. And looking at the texts, it does sound like his dad was kind of like "...wtf?" from the beginning.
Plus we don't know if these kinds of presents were a regular thing or not. I feel like some people kind of assume his dad was giving him expensive gifts all the time, but I don't think that was actually the case. In context we know that he didn't see Bryer from ages 8 to 16, and the Airsoft rifle was either for his 17th birthday or Christmas when he was 17 (I forget which). So in context it makes total sense because that was their first birthday/Christmas together in 8 years.
Am I right in that one source said Bryer's mom was afraid of him? And that source was an unnamed (former?) co-worker.
eta: That many WSers refer to that one source, doesn't give more weight to that one source. One source does not a fact make.
Yes. And his own mom, and his mom's mom, and his mom's uncle, all said the opposite.
Does it not seem strange that if his own mother feared him, the answer to that was to send him to live with his Grandmother, a defenseless elderly woman?
Yes, that definitely does sound like the exact opposite of what you would do with a violent, psycho teenager.
I think there may have been some serious dysfunction going on in Mom's home too. JMO
I'm just going to leave this here (the time period this lady was discussing was long after the divorce). This lady's interview was quoted in articles which I mentioned before, but I never saw the full interview before, and it's pretty telling.