...What i found most interesting was his talk of NK. He said she let him be himself (paraphrasing), but i dont believe she did. She allowed him to think that by cleverly choosing interests he had to go on dates to. She was pulling his strings very cleverly.
I have always believed she was far from truthful and now I am certain. She made their relationship out to be casual and in the early stages. He says he stayed over in her place every night Shanann was away. She said she would like to give him a son, the one thing she thought Shanann could not do/had not done. No wonder he did not want the gender reveal to go ahead. I have never had a discussion like that with a boyfriend of mere weeks in all my life.
I think she is far more significant in this than we will ever know, she was clever and coniving and once she set her sights on him he had no chance. What she wants she gets and tough luck on anybody who gets in her way...
I see NK the exact same way that you do. I think that this was a game to her, and she was determined to "win." She researched SW and even tried her best to feminize her looks to look similar. SW was a natural beauty. NK is not.
So, NK compensated with doing anything and everything in a sexual way to draw him in. She is like a black widow spider, IMO.
CW may have thought that he was in charge; however, it is clear as day that she was the one pulling the strings and manipulating him. I personally think that she would have been fine with him completely cutting the kids out of his life. I believe that she is that self-centered and selfish. I do not see her as a victim, as she is desperately trying to portray herself.
...His mother and sister should take a long hard look at themselves also and consider what role they had to play in what eventually happened...
There is little doubt that CW comes from a very dysfunctional family. His mother was blaming SW after she was murdered. How pathetic is that?
The father wants people to believe that SW murdered the children. He said that he didn't see any reason for the investigators to reinterview his so. I guess that he didn't. He doesn't want the truth to be known.
CW's mother and sister hated SW from the beginning and ruined her bridal shower and wedding. Why? Why on earth would you do this? Both were jealous of SW for different reasons. SW was no pushover, and his mother resented that. CW had been a pushover his entire life. SW wouldn't cowtow to her.
The sister was jealous of SW's accomplishments and her beauty. Plain and simple. SW never had a chance. She knew, if the marriage were going to have a chance, they would have to move far away.
Instead of having the insight to see the manipulation from his own family, he resented SW for taking him away from them and causing the rift. IMO, he used this as part of his rationalization for killing all of them.
I believe everything that SW told CW that his mother was doing to the kids. Of course, they played the victim and acted like SW was overreacting. Of course, Mr. Wimpy couldn't even stand up for his own family. Very sad, indeed.
The biggest mistake for SW was to think that she could "change" CW and create a happy life if they were far away from the hostility. I'm so sad that this union ended in murder and not divorce.
This is my opinion; however, I think that his family's hate for SW and their lack of true love for the grandchildren override any sadness for the victims. I think that they all think that SW drove their loving son and brother to do what he did.
Very tragic situation for SW's family. I really don't think that his family has the insight to look at where they went wrong. In fact, CW says that he now talks to his family all of the time; you know, now that SW has no say...