I agree with all that you say. When a a master manipulator and liar has the control arrested from him as happened when Todd Fuller launched a barrage of humiliating questions at him in public, GBC wanted to show everyone he had the power not Todd. He was willing to sacrifice the whole persona of remorseful husband tricked into affairs by announcing casually the number of women I went to for sex. using terms that imply the most meaningless and exploiting use of women for sex. He was, without knowing it, taking all power back even if it harmed him to shout I have the power again Todd! and you see I will control what information is and isnt discussed here. This mean ego maniac was feeling humiliated and cornered and he spat back.
And finally, what I dont know is why he just didnt stop Allison from going to the conference, A master liar knows how to do it. Oh Al, I just got a message that your registration payment didn't go through, bad luck but you can go next year. Or he could fake illness, or cut himself dangerously with a razor and let himself near bleed to death to keep her home or pretend one of the kids was really distressed about flashbacks she had been having of sitting on a couch with her mother all day for the first year of her life. Gerard was mean mean mean and he knew how to work Allisons kindness as well as the things she beat herself up for. He could have stopped her going. No guys something else happened that night, something so left of field no amount of guessing will explain. He sure as hell killed Allison and he sure as hell has found a way to reconcile in his mind that it was the right thing to do
This is what happens when lurkers who have been here since day one start posting. I will likely throw the whole new software platform out internationally upsetting people everywhere but mostly people in australia and south africa
Great post and welcome.
Food for thought...
Missing Phone, glove tip,chipped tooth, scratches, missing clothes and sparkling kitchen.
This lunch box washing up has got me thinking...
Do you think Toni sent Allison and Gerard a message , whilst they were in the kitchen washing up the lunch boxes?( He mentions the lunch box washing up ?)
Gerard had gloves on washing up (cut hand changing light fitting) and Allison has her phone and his phone in her hands.
Message comes in...
Allison says... " um, why is Toni messaging you and me?"
Allison puts his phone down and opens hers to read this message.
Gerard, wet gloves, grabs for her phone before she can read it.
Allison holds it away from him and struggles to read it.
He is brutally holding her down to try to get it off her.
He chips Allisons tooth with the phone, and she scratches his face and bruises his chest and underarm trying to get him off her.
The tooth chip lands on the floor.
She can't hold the phone any longer, because he is now trying to strangle her but manages to take the tip of his glove off as he twists her jumper up over arms and twists it over her head.
She gets up but she slips on the water on the floor and hits her head on the sink. She falls and is dead? There is blood on her phone , clothes , and in the kitchen.
This is what happens when you have been here since day 1 .
You just keep rambling on, and ... :loveyou: no one tells you to just shut up. :blushing: