http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5jYBv8sERl7Wf-qlhuh0f2KAN8ihQD9CCM2JG1
I wonder why he was pulled from school? He had good grades.
I wonder why he was pulled from school? He had good grades.
http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5jYBv8sERl7Wf-qlhuh0f2KAN8ihQD9CCM2JG1
I wonder why he was pulled from school? He had good grades.
"He was also withdrawn from school 12 days before he allegedly killed his brother for cutting himself."
From the following article:
http://www.kypost.com/content/wcpos...-Year-Old-Brother/cJPUpQKMKkqaGnjw45VdAw.cspx
How horrible that per the article I read this morning, after he committed the crime he went to see the girlfriend and give her a sweetheart ring and seemed, according to her, to be happier than she had seen him in some time.
That literally makes me feel like I want to lose my lunch. Like someone just kicked me in the gut.
Lyn1001--You certainly might be right. However, we're not going to know until we hear from parents or teachers. Sociopathic behavior can start not long after birth (our 4 year old was diagnosed with Conduct Disorder--the childhood version of sociopathy).
As I said earlier, our child exhibited his disorder continuously. He was placed with us for adoption at age 3, already on heavy duty meds. There's never been a shock concerning what he's done.
I'm still unclear, though, about Andrew. We need more information to be able to know if this child was "born evil" as the prosecutor says (in other words, with Conduct Disorder) or had a sudden or rapid slide into illness.
I wonder about early traumas for this boy? I wonder if there's anything to the new information coming out about a "slow-simmering bipolar"? If we find out that pets have been hurt, people have been bullied, crimes have been committed...we'll know more...and that will point to sociopathic behavior. He can't be diagnosed with Sociopathy or Antisocial Personality Disorder until he's 18. I guess that's why these kids need thorough psych evals.
Another question. If Andrew was known to have severe behaviors, why would he be left alone with his little brother? That's another reason I think the actions (maybe not the delusions and thinking errors) were recent.
This poor grieving family needs some answers and some closure. This is really a double tragedy.
I want to start by saying I understand what everyone is saying about mental illness, schizophrenia, etc. I've dealt with a number of mentally ill children and adults. Mental illnesses can have horrible consequences. However, from what I've read, it sounds like this teen has the precursor of Anti-Social Personality Disorder. In other words, is a sociopath. The fact that he has had these thoughts since 8th grade doesn't sound like a psychotic break to me. Sociopaths become very good at mimicing the emotions and responses they see in others. Often times they will be intelligent and good students. They present a perfect facade. However, they don't experience typical emotions. Fire setting, harming/killing animals, and bedwetting are the triad for serial killers. I'd be curious to know if this teen has a history of any of those. I actually know a child who has the flat affect and tries to mimic the emotional responses of others. Also tries to be a "perfect" child and nothing is ever wrong. It's always "great". Said with vacant eyes and little facial expression. That child is still young and actually has some delays and has not yet mastered the mimicing.
It's interesting to me that when the killer is young, we (as a society in general) try to find reasons for what they did. We don't excuse it, but we want a reason other than that they are sociopathic. Sometimes there are other reasons, sometimes not. Yet when an adult appears to be sociopathic, we have no trouble believing it. The thing is, the adults didn't become that way overnight. When we look at their history, there were issues present in childhood and adolescence.
Of course, I am open to all opinions and am willing to change my mind if new facts come to light! I enjoy reading the different opinions here because they force me to think outside my own thoughts.
I probably sound like a real meanie, but I think a lot of these kids are just EVIL. Sociopaths, psychopaths, whatever you want to call them. I am not going to buy into the "illness du jour", pardon my French. Not everyone needs a pill and a hug to fix them. Some of them need to be locked away. Forever. For their own good and mainly, for OURS. OTOH, since I am so mean, it might surprise all of you that I am pretty much anti-DP. I think too many mistakes are made and we have killed too many innocent people. But I am 100 percent LWOP. And LWOP means LWOP. I don't care if you are under 18. I have no issues locking up a psycho child.
I am relieved to hear the parents stayed away from his hearing and were at the viewing.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/34279295/ns/us_news-crime_and_courts/
His parents were at a viewing for his brother Conner Conley's body and did not attend the hearing.
I just found out the answer to one of my questions from your article.
The parents had pulled Andrew Conley out of Rising Sun High School on Nov. 16 — 12 days before prosecutors said he strangled his younger brother, said Stephen Patz, the superintendent of Rising Sun-Ohio County Community Schools.
Patz declined to state the reasons for the withdrawal, but said both Conley brothers were decent students
I want to know why he was withdrawn by his parents? Don't you have to give a reason for withdrawing to the school?
I thought I read somewhere else the reason was cutting? I assume cutting himself, not cutting class.
ETA: Found it, post 42:
Police say there were other signs of destructive behavior by Andrew. He apparently tried to kill his father, who awoke to his son standing over him with a knife Sunday evening. He was also withdrawn from school 12 days before he allegedly killed his brother for cutting himself.
http://www.kypost.com/content/wcpos...-Year-Old-Brother/cJPUpQKMKkqaGnjw45VdAw.cspx
I guess what I'm trying to figure out is why would his parents withdraw him from school because he was cutting himself? What I mean to say is if my child started cutting themselves I would probably go to school and try to get him in with one of the school counselors and then seek some other professional help. I'm just wondering what good withdrawing Andrew from school would be. I would be worried that he would have more free time on his hands to cut himself. Am I making any sense???:crazy: