Candy_Pickletoes
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A bit off topic, but tangentially related. My ex used to get me in these Jodi-like convoluted discussions, say outrageous things, argue in a really maddening fashion. When I finally would lose patience, I would be the one to raise my voice. Trump! He would immediately say "wow, you're acting really crazy". And I was---but it was after a concerted effort on his part to get me there, and BINGO---we were no longer talking about him or the issue at hand, but my "crazyness".
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Gaslighting, crazy-making. It's a technique and it works. Unless you're Juan.
Oh my goodness, I didn't know there was a name for that type of behavior. Very interesting indeed.