oceanblueeyes
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Good morning all!
I do commend her for trying her best to keep Dulce's case at the forefront in the media the best way she can.
Sigh. Like with so many other innocent parents who also spoke to the media, she is being senselessly vilified as well.
I have realized long ago, no matter what these devastated parents with kidnapped, and missing children do or don't do it's never good enough, and especially the internet masses judging from afar.
Whether they speak to the media or are too timid or traumatized to do so they are all so harshly judged. It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't constant situation.. which I've seen even become worse if possible every passing year.
A prime example is what Sergio the father of 6 year old Isabel Celis had to endure for SIX long years being falsely accused 24/7 all that time.
IF the actual stranger kidnapper, serial pedophile rapist, and murderer of little Isa, CC, had not been found, and arrested it would still be going on right now. All the false allegations weren't based on evidence, but mere hinky meters, etc. or opinions which none were factually based.
However Isa's case is only one example among so many others of what countless other parents have also been subjected to even at times after the actual suspect was found, and arrested. Then it became more about the ones who were flat wrong all along..thought they knew more than the actual investigators who had gathered all the facts in evidence proving BARD the offenders charged were indeed the guilty ones.
The same thing happened all during the years long unsolved McStay case. By then there were so many entrenched in their own theories of who the murderer of the four was some refused to believe it was Charles Merritt, simply because he wasn't the one they had chosen. Yet when all the evidence was entered from the witness stand in his trial it showed clearly CM was guilty BARD, and the jury recommended death. No one else was involved.
Imo, what all of these cases show is evidence is vitally important, and is required before just assuming anyone is at fault.
I'm sure there are others on other social media sites.. as well as in the mother's own community who believes it's her own fault in someway why precious Dulce was kidnapped by this predatory monster.
I dont think there can be anything more hurtful or emotionally painful for parents, beyond already having a kidnapped, and missing child.. than to be falsely accused of being the very ones involved or are accused somehow to blame for it happening.
Imo, AIK, this cruel madness must stop! Its beyond out of control now like a blood sport pastime for so many, and only worsening.
We all need to be very mindful there is a parent or another love one on the other end who is in tremendous pain who is seeing this written or hearing it being whispered about them or is being told to them by those who has seen it written or heard it.
Every word we say or have ever written MATTERS.
Somehow, someway we must return to being the gentler, kinder, supportive, and compassionate people we have been proud of being for most of America's existence.
For me personally I saw the drastic horrifying change starting in 2005-06. It's only gotten far far worse since then.
God bless Dulce, her grieving mother, and all who dearly love her! May Dulce,and her evil offender be found!
Jmho tho.
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