Yes. I've never seen anything like this. We moved in here to help DH's elderly, disabled dad with the household situation that included his daughter and her tweaker boyfriend. She went on a vendetta against me like I've only seen in movies.
Food poisoning. Destruction of property, vandalized my things, stole things...dear old dad would say "Oh, no. She'd never do anything like that."
It's a long, fascinating (to me and my family) tale covering the last 11 years.
She has a lawyer friend (scientologist doesn't believe in mental illness) who threatened to sue Adult Protective Services when they came out to help because paramedics couldn't get a stretcher through the house and had to carry Dad out like a dead body in a sheet sling. APS requested cleanup, lawyer threatened lawsuit.
Early on, we put locks on our doors in the rooms (dad was really ticked off at that) but neglected the windows. We got her on video in her pantyhose and heels climbing through the window, shoving a 60lb laser printer out of the way among other things. She's 5'3" maybe 100 lbs and is like a ferret. She's determined to do what she wants to do. When I finally threatened her with the video and threatened her dad that we were going to move out, he puts some limits on her behavior. Stealth tidbits continue, but not like it was before. I told dad in no uncertain terms that I would prosecute her if she continued.
Sick, sick relationship father and daughter. Nothing sexual, just inappropriately co-dependent. They treat each other like they're slow children and are superior to one another. FASCINATING if you're not in her line of fire.
She's very aware of what she does. Cold, calculating, manipulative and alternates between being "poor little victimized me". Relatives have come out of the woodwork to tell me of her violence as a child to her brother (DH) and the parents watching and doing nothing while relative sat horrified.
We sometimes refer to her as Rhoda (the girl in The Bad Seed).
We're stuck with her until any of us dies. I die, no problem. Dad dies, we're out of here. DH dies, I'm out of here. She dies, YIPPEE we're all happy including her dad. Part of her problem is she was and is a spoiled brat. Not with things, but her bad behavior for decades. She's run roughshod over the entire family, DH used to sleep with a knife under his pillow and was accused of being overreactive. I thought so, too, until I moved in here and experienced these things and watched her in action more than once while she was up to no good. Clever girl. Immature without a doubt, but malevolent. Lies at the drop of a hat, for no other reason than she enjoys knowing she put one over on someone else. She told the neighbors all kinds of bad things about me, one of them hired an investigator to check me out, lol! Clean bill of health, he later apologized. Dad never apologizes. Dad is manipulative sweet, little old school gentleman from the midwest. Twinkle in his eye while he lies.
A strange combination of passive-aggressive Dad and outright aggressive daughter.
TMI, so sorry.
