I feel so sorry for this lady. I think she should have been given the final say on things, simply because it must be extremely hard for her to separate DG/AG and family from the crime, because of their closeness to the murderer. I know they are entirely innocent, and I'm not explaining this very well. I know what I mean though.
The fact that she felt she couldn't attend the funeral because the mother of the accused was there, is heartbreaking. Perhaps, it might have been better if AG hadn't attended, even though she was grieving too. It just seems wrong that the person who felt they couldn't attend was Becky's mum.