southcitymom
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PERFECT!! I completely agree. I hope when the time comes I able to separate the instances when I should let my child figure it out and encourage them to stand up for themselves, and when I need to step in. I don't think I'd ever be too lax about stepping in, but I think all parents feel heartbreak for their children, even when what they are going thru is really just the normal youngster's angst.
You are right that it's a fine line we walk as parents. I watched my parents go through it with my youngest sister, who was a social outcast during much of lower and middle school.
I have not had to deal with too much of this yet with my kids - I hope wisdom will guide me through it when the time comes!