Baden-Clay said he was reluctant to talk about the affair, but that did not mean he had not spoken about it at all.
“I was having the conversations with Allison,” he said.
He agreed Ms McHugh had come to see him at his home in Brookfield on two occasions, while his family was away on the Gold Coast.
Baden-Clay said he had told his wife about that.
“When she asked me about it previously,” he said.
He said his wife had no issue with sleeping at the house knowing that Ms McHugh had been there, but did not want to use the Prado where they had sex.
He said he could not remember when he first told his wife he did not love her.
“The conversations that we had were, I’m, please forgive me, I’m just trying to recollect for you… I’m trying to see if I can think if I can give a reference in time, I think it must have been in 2009 perhaps when we first went to see Tom George and we had a few conversations around then,” he said.
He agreed he thought that was around June, 2009.
“We agreed to go together and it was after conversations with Dr George that we had further discussions with Allison that I still loved her but didn’t feel `in love’ with her,” he said.
He agreed he may have told Ms McHugh he didn’t love his wife, but just to “placate her”.
Baden-Clay said he could not remember telling Ms McHugh he wanted to leave his wife but wasn’t ready yet in December, 2011.
“I was trying to bring her back from the upset she had felt,” he said.
He agreed the way to make her feel better was by telling her he loved her.
The accused agreed he told Ms McHugh he would be hers “unconditionally” at the meeting.
“It was a bit of a joke in relation to a real estate contract being unconditional and I think Toni raised that,” he said.
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