Simply Southern
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Ah - well, then, the parents are prioritizing the friends/the social life. They've considered all options (seriously? there are SO many - there are really well known universities that let high school students in, with those kinds of GPA's - but yeah, the social thing is more important).
The social thing will end abruptly with HS graduation, anyway.
Did the parents not consider community college? Because it's free units! And gives that high GPA student from high school the ability to excel at college work. It's also a good way to test aptitude - college classes should be next on the agenda for such students, anyway.
They should move on and take classes that fulfill their HS requirements - unless their state Ed Code doesn't allow it, but most do. They'll be done before they know it, but if they want to slow it down due to their social needs, that's understandable - but it's totally their decision and their parents' decision, it's not as if it's a failure of the system.
CoVid, at the rate we're going, is going to be about the same until a vaccine is available and used by the young. Might be a year. No choice but to plan for that, IMO.
No we didn't look at the community college for classes for an educational benefit. My daughter had over 60 CC credits going into VT. The CC college lead us to believe these classes would transfer towards a degree, they were NOT dual enrollment classes, hit full college classes. HA...VT only allowed credit as an elective towards a degree. We also checked the other schools she was accepted to UVA, William and Mary and several private college, all the same. CC classes are a joke when transferring, money is better spend on a 4 year college, unless its a 2 year program.
Yes, we do have programs for juniors and seniors HS student to live on campus/ online and take HS and college classes, graduating in 4 yeard with a four year degree. We looked at this when daughter was in HS. Colleges flood the academically gifted students with invites to participate in these programs, We even went to the Johns Hopkins parent weekend program. Its more pressure than we wanted to expose our daughter to. Our goal was to raise a successful, happy, well rounded, social adjusted child to adulthood. Giving her the best opportunity for financial independence, as well as being a good mother and wife, if she chose.
Mental health for all students is very important. Isolation is a leading cause of depression, suicide and mental health problems. Just Google....her parents and I have read many studies. This is especially true for outgoing, energetic and socially active kids and adults. Hardly a day goes by we don't read of folks committing suicide.
Education is more than academics, imho. It builds long lasting friendships, leadership skills, socialization skills, and the tools we need to survive in everyday life. An education or degree is of little use, if employees don't have/use socialization skills. They can become known as the difficult employee that doesn't get along with others, can't work in groups, bullies others, and overbearing. Most of us know the "kind" of person I speak of, smart but no fee like.
NO, socializatiom doesn't end with HS, in MY world. It's only the beginning of sharing the up and downs, successes/failure, meeting kids and grandkids of my fellow class mates. My elementary school classmates and I still have a yearly picnic at the park just like we did in school. We even do a bike ride though the old neighborhood, for those of us that can still ride. LOL Many of our former teachers and classmates of all ages, attend, we print memory books yearly to give out. It's advertised in the newspaper, radio and TV. Its great see everyone's family, kids and grand kids. Our oldest attendee is 94 yo our youngest just days old.
I/We want well rounded, happy kids, not kids living in fear. Fear is the adults job, not a burden I'm willing to place on kids who are already struggling with a lockdown.
I do believe and teach all children I encounter Universal Precautions. That's what we call it with the Gkids. Even the 5 yo, runs to wash his hand before eating, willing puts on his mask in public and never touches anything. Not from fear, but from education.
I'm more interested in raising grandkids that can successfully cope with what every the world throws at them. This may not be the only pandemic or world crisis my grandkids will experience in their lifetime. I am committed to teaching them how to live anything in the world throw at them.
So, as you can see your views and suggestions will not work in the environmental I strive to create. But I do thank you for the time and thought of your response and it may help others.
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