Contrast Rick's approach to Cindy and George's approach to Casey. Rick told it like it was. Thank you Rick. Someone in her family needed to say those things to Cindy. Didn't work, but at least Rick didn't get sucked into the madness. On the other hand before and after a big blow up with KC re the stealing, which led to KC leaving, Cindy apparently had began to face up to the truth of KC, had talked to a therapist about her real feelings and it had come out to several of KC's 'friends'- to at least Ryan, Amy, TonE, earlier Jesse. She seemed to be capable of being down on Casey if she felt like it, but when Cindy and George got to KC in jail, it was all nicey, nice, clues, kid gloves, sweetness and light. It was so phony, I wanted to reach through the camera and throttle them. Their grandchild was missing. Their daughter was lying like a rug, making ABSOLUELY no sense, wasn't providing any coherrent information, wasn't co-operating to find a child she said had been kidnapped, wouldn't even talk about it to George and Cindy. KC implied it was to keep her family safe, to keep Caylee safe. In no universe, on no planet are kidnapped children SAFE. The wheedling and cajoling of Casey, the trying to make her feel like they were 'on her side' was ABSOLUTELY infuriating to me. Perhaps, they acted that way on the advice of a psychologist who told them that was their only chance of getting info from a personality-disordered KC, but that didn't work better than Rick's approach to Cindy and it was such crudola, such a denial of reality. Perhaps when Cindy told Rick he didn't know everything, that's what she meant, that they were going along with KC to try to get info from KC. Yet, the Ants seemed to have veered into the vortex of KC's insanity. Maybe they created it through their family in the 1st place. Who knows, but it would appear that they got sucked into the madness themselves, whether they intended to or not. Rick and Shirley didn't.
But I like that Rick tried with Cindy. I think many of us have wished someone would. I can see George having tried with Cindy too...and gotten pretty much the same response Rick got, words to the effect of 'If you ever say Caylee is dead, I'll never forgive you.' Unlike Rick, wanting to believe Caylee alive for his own purposes, needing to both 'take care' of Cindy and stay in her good graces, I think George capitulated even though I also think he has probably always understood the truth from Day 31. Living this lie has not helped the Ants, nor KC. The Ants have stayed in torturous limbo and any chance of any meaningful life after this is resolved may have been diminished. It seems like they've pretty much driven themselves insane. The longer it went with KC, the longer it goes still, the greater chance KC has of doing close to life jail time and, frankly, time in God's displeasure in the afterlife if she isn't helped to face up and atone. I think Ric was trying to tell them that too, not so much about the afterlife, but about KC's possibilites for life in prison, if the Ants didn't start dealing with her on the up and up. I think he was exaperated but I think he spoke out of concern.